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Should I stay at a job that I hate?

Profile: Smilingfuture
Smilingfuture on Oct 19, 2019
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Jobs, tasks, assignments come in varied forms and with Supervisors or Bosses who have a redetermined mindset which , one has to deal with, in addition to completing the given task, efficiently and effectively. So one has to deal with the both - task and the task matter, with a very composed mind. I have seen in my own career, that even if i take my focus on either of this, the consequences can be tough to handle later on. So this seldom leads to hatefull attitude towards the job itself. If one carefully observes, the beauty lies in the accomplishing the task and the beast in the task master. There were times, when one is upset with the job and leaves for another job, more than ever, one finds again in a similar situation. So its best to deal with the current level of job, as efficiently as possible , and if the situation doesn't improve at the workplace, it is best to move over to another one and be prepared to face the new task and the task master with a smile of the face.
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Profile: Claye1
Claye1 on Nov 6, 2019
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I believe that if you aren’t enjoying your job then you are more likely to under perform and not complete tasks to your full capability, it can also have an effect on your mental health and no job is worth that. However I also understand that everyone needs to earn a steady income and love a life. If you’re in a position to look for another job then I would do so. Finding a job that gives you a balance of pleasure and financial stability is always a bonus, I would say if you can let you boss know that you’re not enjoying your job, that may help? What could be the reasons for disliking your job? Can things be changed to help you enjoy your job more?
Profile: Sagettarius
Sagettarius on Nov 22, 2019
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This is a tricky question. Many people are trapped in jobs they hate for many different reasons. Some are trapped in a job they hate because they need the income that it provides and can't manage without that income. Others find themselves in jobs they hate because they are living someone else's (often a parent's) dream for them. Such as being a dentist because it's a family tradition, despite having no desire or possibly aptitude for it. Others still end up in a job they hate because it's the only one they can find, either due to economic conditions or because they lack the qualifications for anything better or more interesting. You also need to work out why you hate your job and see if there are things that you could do to change the way you feel about it. Could you find a different role within the company? Could you arrange to work from home a few days a week to take you out of the pressure cooker if the job stresses yo too much? Do you have issues with your bosses that could be resolved? Ultimately, staying at a job you hate will start to have a negative affect on you and your health, so you either need to find one you like or resolve the issues you have with the one you have.
Profile: heyitsjoyjoy
heyitsjoyjoy on Dec 13, 2019
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However, before leaving said job, it is important to have a solid plan that allows your bills to be paid, so that you are not putting yourself in an even more difficult predicament. Before leaving the job, have an exit plan such as savings for months that you would be unemployed, or get hired somewhere else first. Also, maybe think about why you hate that job in the first place. If what you hate about the job is something that could be fixed, that could also be your first option. Ultimately, being unhappy in a job where you spend 5/7 of your days is not worth it.
Profile: Rachel3201
Rachel3201 on Dec 15, 2019
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If you hate your job, why would you want to stay there? I know everyone has their own reasons for staying with a job that they dislike, and those are valid. But I absolutely believe that you should have a job you enjoy doing. Though, I would not leave your current job unless you have been hired for a new one. Staying with a job that you hate could potentially burn you out from working in general; it can lower your quality of life. This may cause you not to feel motivated enough to go to work, hurting your reputation. Your job may drain your energy overtime as well. Focus on what it is about your job that you hate so much and see if that problem can be solved without leaving. Sometimes, we are not given the opportunity to switch jobs, or it may take a very long time to find another one. If this is the case, find ways to make your job more enjoyable. Are you directly working with toxic people? Is your job too stressful or overwhelming? Maybe try talking to your manager if you believe that may help resolve something. Overall, staying at a job that you hate can give you a negative impact in the workforce and lower your quality of life; therefore, it may be best to find one that you enjoy if the issues cannot be resolved.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 22, 2019
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Well from personal experience I would say yes and no, one should weigh the good and the bad before taking a decision. I have been in this situation and decided to leave immediately but the freedom of stress was weighed down by the fact that I had left my colleagues and friends with wich I had worked for years side by side, plus there is also the stress with getting another job. I would advise finding another job that suits one best and when things can continue steadily than resign, is better to suffer a little loss than to lose a big part of a winning war
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2019
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I don't think I'd stay for a long. If I can't feel I'm happy at work then I'd consider finding a new job, working remote or start my own business. Feeling happy and feeling that I'm contributing towards the workplace is paramount importance to me. When I'm happy I perform better. I'm i hate the job then eventually my productivity and performance will decrease and I surely wont feel good taking a salary when I'm not at my best. Also, I don't want to let people down either. All in all, happiness is really important in life for me, so I'd make sure its a priority when it comes to work too.
Profile: LlamaPajamas
LlamaPajamas on Jan 2, 2020
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There are many different situations you will face in life where the money from your job may seem like all that matters, but you should not stay at a job that you hate. There are obviously many factors that a part of this question that one must consider. Are you supporting loved ones with the money you receive from the job you dislike? Will you lose your shelter? Will you be able to purchase food? Are you supporting your child(ren)? Perhaps you could temporarily stay at this job and search for a new job. If you are unable to just up and drop this job it is important to find a new way of supporting yourself and others before making this leap. You could reach out to others and ask for help in this search as well. Ultimately you should not stay at a job you hate. Staying somewhere that does not make you happy will lead to long time problems and even clinical depression. A place that job hate is a toxic environment and damaging to the mind. If you do choose to leave your job, just make sure you have a plan and have thought it over thoroughly before doing so.
Profile: vswizzle8989
vswizzle8989 on Jan 3, 2020
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You should never do anything that makes you unhappy. But! Weigh the pros & cons. Do you really hate your job or aspects of it. Do you have another position lined up? Are you financially able to handle the burden or sacrifices of leaving a job before getting a new one? When you bare in mind all these factors and still decide-- this isn't for me, make sure your next destination is close to what you imagine in an ideal situation. While not every job is a dream job there are things that make work less draining. Like a positive environment free of toxic drama. Or decent lunch breaks where you have time to go for a walk. Or good benefits like insurance and PTO. Otherwise you may be asking this question again
Profile: FrostWire
FrostWire on Jan 9, 2020
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Hey; what's better than what you have in front of you, you ask? Lets think an ask a few questions before we come up with wild thoughts okay? But where are my manners; i forgot to introduce myself, I'm frostwire. Welcome to 7 Cups. i will be helping you with your question today. So, about those questions; where do we begin? I have an idea; what is this J-O-B? meaning: what field of work is it and what are some of the other jobs that relate to it? When did i start hating where i work? Is this thing that makes me offset and temper-mental on the inside something i can change if given time? If i left this JOB; what other job options do i have? Have i applied myself to be able to switch from one job to the next? Is this other job able to cover bills on a reoccurring basis? these questions are base reality question that can help decide what one can do to help them in or out of a tough position that they dislike. I'm Frostwire; and this is 7 Cups, thanks for reaching out to your friendly and supporting listener zone.
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