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How do I tell my boss I'm leaving? (nicely)?

Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie on Aug 8, 2019
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Being honest and professional is the nicest way to leave an employer. The truth is, people leave jobs all the time, so this isn't something new for you boss. He's/she's probably had 10s or 100s of people give him/her their resignation. Be honest about why you are leaving, and give them at least a 2 week notice. If your employer was pleasant to work for, be sure to thank them and acknowledge them for that. I know it can be hard and awkward to give your boss your resignation, but it helps to know that it happens frequently, and it's pretty unlikely that your employer will take it personally.
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Profile: Chlorophyll123
Chlorophyll123 on Sep 27, 2019
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Honesty is key. Don't put it off for too long. the longer you wait the worse it gets, because youll have to serve your notice period. Keep it curt, keep it professional and refrain from getting into too many personal details.
Profile: Jayyc
Jayyc on Oct 23, 2019
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It can be very hard to tell your boss that you are thinking to leave your job. The best thing to do is have a quiet word with them to give them a heads up, this shows them respect and will make you look professional. You will then need to follow this up with a notice letter providing them the reasons for your decision and how the date of your final day. Usually, depending on your contract you will usually give them a weeks notice if you don’t have a contract. I have a look at your contract and state how many weeks you will work your notice before your last day.
Profile: bellarina74
bellarina74 on Feb 1, 2020
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Making the decision to change the organisation you are employed by can leave you feeling extremely anxious. Transitioning to a new job is stressful enough without having to worry how you boss is going to take the news of losing a team member. It is not an easy conversation to have, especially if the company has invested a lot of time in training you. However, you need to do what is best for you and what is going to make you happy. Whilst we all like to think we are indispensable, we are not. Your boss may initially unhappy but they will find a replacement for you soon enough.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 5, 2020
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tell him/her that you will be taking up a new job opportunity or you will be leaving and that you enjoyed working with him/her. don't be rude, but just hope that he/she will understand, it is not your fault for leaving. let them know it not their fault you are leaving, make sure they know you enjoyed working at the company/ in their business, but you can not continue in the future. just do your best to be kind, and don't lay the news down the second you're leaving, let them know maybe at least a week in advance preferably a month.
Profile: StroggCore
StroggCore on Feb 10, 2020
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Had a same problem when I decided to quit. It was hard for me, to be honest. Because my boss was a cool guy. But I wanted something bigger. I opened my own office at Coworking platform and started to earn money. My boss was not only a cool guy, he was also a smart one. And so, after I left, we met again and become something like partners. We have a cooperation right now: if he has too much work to do, he gives a part of it to my guys and I do the same stuff with his people.
Profile: kindDreamer9743
kindDreamer9743 on Mar 8, 2020
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The best way to leave your current employer is with dignity and do not burn your bridges as that could come back to bite you later on! simply ask your boss if you could speak to him at the end of your shift and out of ear shot from other colleagues and tell him/her its time for you to move on and try something else although you have enjoyed working there (whether you did or not) and you have learnt a great deal which your very grateful for as well as the opportunity to work there, by the time you deliver this message to the said boss its best to follow it up with a polite written resignation stating the length of time you intend to work your notice and always leave on a positive and a handshake.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 21, 2020
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You can ask for an in-person meeting with your boss, and thank them for the opportunity that you got to spend with them as part of the team however a new offer presented itself and after much consideration with myself (and my family) I ended up going with the new position. However I will look fondly upon the time I spent here. And I definitely want to keep in touch. If they wrote your reference letter thank them for that as well. Then be sure to tell them when you're leaving and that you're willing to help train your replacement in the meantime. Also be sure to say goodbye to the rest of the office and leave on good terms.
Profile: NoelLikesSunsets
NoelLikesSunsets on Mar 28, 2020
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You could try explaining to your boss that you are interested in pursuing another path to develop some different skills that your current job can't provide. It provides some closure for your boss to know that you want to try something else, but does not make your boss feel like they are the ones at fault. Sometimes, you've just got to spread your wings and try something new! It can be nice to share with your boss some good memories or things you learned from your time with them, and to let them know that you will take these skills you developed with them into the future with you. :)
Profile: SirJayalot
SirJayalot on Apr 4, 2020
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Be sure you know exactly what your message is before you approach your boss. Even if you are leaving on good terms, the conversation is likely to be awkward and difficult. You don't want to stumble over your words. At the same time, you want to be firm in your decision and prepared for any potential questions or objections your manager brings up. Are you prepared to say no to a counteroffer? What if your manager asks you to reconsider and suggests picking up the conversation in a few days? What if he or she gets emotional? (It could happen, especially if you're a key member of the team, or you have a close relationship with your boss.) Keep the meeting professional and, above all, don’t give in to the urge to vent about your job. Just some things to consider IMO ;)
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