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How not to sound weird when talking to authority?

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Anonymous on Mar 25, 2017
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Confidence is key. Know what you're talking about and stick to the subject and get to the point, rather than stalling and beating around the bush. Remember that the authority figure is just like you. They're just another person in uniform. But most importantly, respect. Talk to them politely, just like you would like to be treated. Confidence, respect and gratitude (depending on the situation). Gratitude will lighten up the mood, maybe loosen your nerves a little and help create a positive vibe of the atmosphere.
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Anonymous on Mar 30, 2017
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Try to relax a little bit and realize that if you haven't done anything wrong you have nothing to worry about. Authorities can be intimidating sometimes and its okay to feel nervous even if you haven't done anything that might've gotten you in trouble. Just let loose and relax imagine that you're talking to a friend but in a formal way
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Helpfulsmiles16 on Apr 26, 2017
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Always remember to remain respectful! Respect is the key when talking and addressingredients anyone in your life, but especially authority figures! Remember your tone and body language are key, hold yourself well and you'll be fine! :)
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Anonymous on May 18, 2017
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Try at first getting a clear idea of what you wish to say. Once you have an idea of what you are going to say, approach the situation with confidence. Say what you need to say, be willing to listen to any feedback, but most of all don't panic. At the end of a day you are just talking to another person. Treat it that way and just speak the way you like being spoken to!!
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warmCandy62 on May 20, 2017
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When you are talking to an authority, I would make sure that you are very respectful towards the authority, Do not slur words because they will assume you are drinking when your not. Make sure whatever gender they are you say "yes sir" and "yes Ma'am". Tell nothing but the truth! They appreciate someone that can tolerate them.
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ostrobogulousworld on Jun 23, 2017
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The most effective method is to remember that you're talking to another person, regardless of the authority that they may have. People are focused on what they're going to say next rather than focusing on the mannerisms of the person they are talking to. Remembering this will potentially help you feel less awkward and less focused on your vocal tones or body stance. Remember to breathe normally- trying diaphragmatic breathing (breathing from the abdomen) may help keep calm in the moment.
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Anonymous on Jul 20, 2017
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Speak respectfully using words like sir, ma'am etc. Speak to them only when it is needed. Unnecessary chat can sound really weird and discomforting.
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Anonymous on Aug 12, 2017
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Be affirmative and bold! Be hoest about what you are saying, and enjoy it! Always share you thoughts and ideas.
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GentleOwl19 on Aug 18, 2017
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Just be polite and most importantly, yourself. If you pretend to be someone you aren't it's just going to make yourself feel more stressed and anxious. Listen carefully to what the other person is saying and respond in a respectful way (i.e welcoming tone of voice).
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Anonymous on Aug 25, 2017
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First of all not worrying about sounding "weird". Be confident. If the people care and love about you (Which I'm sure they do) they'll understand eventually whatever issues you're having. Maybe planning it out in advance might help or anything that makes you comfortable. Start at the bottom with friends, work your way up. Maybe even have a friend with you. The choice is yours. Whatever might help
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