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How not to sound weird when talking to authority?

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Anonymous on Nov 11, 2016
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try to think what you need to say first then talk to them in a polite manner. cite the issue of the problem and make sure it is clear to the authority available. do not talk to them impolite because that would only escalate the situation.
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Anonymous on Nov 16, 2016
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Speaking to authority can sometimes seem as a nerve-wracking thing in which we find ourselves thinking we're sounding weirdly! However, the case may very well be that our nerves are just in overdrive and we actually sound find! It should always be kept in mind to remain polite, respectful, and thoughtful when speaking to authority is what I believe.
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Anonymous on Dec 11, 2016
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You have to remember that they're people, too. They are not a mystical authority figure. They're normal people with normal problems. So just speak to them like you would to a normal person: respectfully, kind and honestly.
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Aurora131 on Dec 17, 2016
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Speak confidently with head held high, a firm tone and eye contact. Body language is especially important when speaking to someone that is a figure of authority. Good posture symbolizes that you're relaxed, a firm tone suggests that you're sure of what you're saying and eye contact ensures that trust is established and that what you are saying is meant to be taken seriously. Stuttering or pauses are completely normal in these situations due to the anxiety associated with talking to an authority figure. Whether it's your boss or a cop, the key to speaking confidently plays a great deal in how your message is conveyed and how receptive people are to it. It's best to keep things simple instead of elaborate wording that implies a beating around the bush type of thing. Having a lot
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friendlylittlefox on Dec 22, 2016
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I found that the best thing to do is first, listen. Authority figures are still people, and it's easy to lose sight of this due to the presence of "power" - i.e.; a badge, a title, a diploma, a social status. Listen, observe, and reciprocate. Do as they do, and speak as they say. Imitation is not only a form of flattery, but also a way to connect with others on a seemingly deeper level, while equalizing the balance between you. Now, you don't want to mock them literally word-for-word, but imitate their gestures, their tone, and their vocabulary. For example: Your boss might stand straight and tall, speak clearly, and in few concise and accurate words. While greeting him, you may say: "Hi Tom, how are you?" and not say: "Hey Tom, how are things going?" When discussing problems, you'd be straightforward, like: "The order is late. I can call the shipping company and inquire about an early morning delivery." and avoid bouncing around the issue indirectly, like: "So, the order hasn't gotten here yet... I don't know where it is... but I could probably see if the shippers would send it to us tomorrow, maybe early in the morning, or I'll just see what they can do." Reciprocate their vibe, and you will feel better about your communication abilities with that person of authority.
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oxyg on Dec 29, 2016
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Stay cool, calm and collected. Don't overthink your words and speak clearly. Be respectful and cooperate as well!
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Anonymous on Feb 1, 2017
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Think that they are the same as you. You should show respect but be strong about your arguments and defend your opinion, as is as valid as anyone else's.
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Well, the thing about Authority is that there's a difference between authority and respect. Being respectful and thinking before you speak is always a safe path to take, but be aware that some people with authority like to throw their weight around. This question is a bit circumstantial, i'm afraid. Try not to panic, I suppose. ;)
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Anonymous on Mar 8, 2017
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Sometimes sounding weird is because you have not listened to the question and begin rambling when giving an answer. Best thing is to listen to what has been said, think of the answer and speak clear and slowly. Not silly slow, but slow your body down. Remember if you have not dont anything wrong then there is nothing to worry about. Other than that, be friendly and you will begin talking like you would normally talk to a friend!
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ButterflyofEmpathy on Mar 11, 2017
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First, understand that they are people, just like you. Imagine you're talking to a friend, but be respectful. The more practice you have, the more natural it will feel. Be polite and respectful but don't worry too much.
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