I'm stressed out and when I try to go to sleep I can't shut off my thoughts. What should I do?
271 Answers
Moderated by Smita Joshi, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Updated: Feb 21, 2022
victorsledge
on
Jul 23, 2015
...read more
I would look into mindfullness meditation. It will help you to slow down your mind before you go to bed at night. It has worked wonders for me.
Noca86
on
Jul 25, 2015
...read more
LIsten to some sleep music. You can find plenty of free sleep music on Youtube. It will help drown out your thoughts and allow you to sleep easier. If you are stressing about tomorrow, tell yourself that there is nothing you can do about tomorrow while in bed in the middle of the night, and leave tomorrow worries for tomorrow.
HannahTribeca
on
Jul 29, 2015
...read more
I'm familiar with this one - the body is asleep but there are monkeys in the mind! I usually try to get a shower, make my bed, and set to meditate mindfully for 5 minutes. First, I find myself in a comfortable position. Then, I focus on legs, feeling all the tiredness, the lethargy and the heaviness. I remain still, and aware. Then, I shift my focus to my torso, and then my chest, being aware of my breathing. I will inhale from my nose, as I feel my belly expanding. I also exhale from my nose, as my stomach in.
By now, time usually feels expanded, or I get very sleepy.
To continue, I move on to be aware of other parts of my body, till I reach the top of my head. Then, I will focus on my breathing. I will note the sensations and thoughts that appear, labeling it as 'tiredness, tiredness' or 'feed my dog, feed my dog' or 'worry, worry' and then I let it go. If it wants to linger, I can label it as 'desire, desire' or, 'attachment, attachment' and let the thought our sensation runs it's course. This is great self-therapy and a peaceful practise. Try it!
ChasingInsomnia
on
Jul 30, 2015
...read more
This often happens to me when I'm stressed about the future, so I often journal to try to get my thoughts on paper. I also stick to a very struck sleep routine so as to sooth my brain.
Anonymous
on
Aug 1, 2015
...read more
I highly recommend quietly listening to podcasts, radio, or any other talk radio kind of show. I usually play something on my iphone, and when I start to fade I turn it off.
For a more organic approach visualization can be used. Try visualizing how your day will go tomorrow, think of all the most positive outcomes.
Coralpink58
on
Aug 1, 2015
...read more
i would recommend an audio book. find a topic you are interested in, so you get absorbed in the narration. then close your eyes and focus on the reader's voice. there's a app called Overdrive that gives access to free audio books from libraries near you. You can download the mp3 files for a book into your phone, so you can access the book offline as well.
Anonymous
on
Aug 1, 2015
...read more
Try some relaxation methods to take your mind off of things. I usually try to read something quite uninteresting in a dim light and eventually my brain starts responding by feeling tired.
Anonymous
on
Aug 2, 2015
...read more
you could try exercising. it's a great way to relax, get all that stress out and then get a good night's sleep.
mysticalcod
on
Aug 2, 2015
...read more
I'm really bad at this, ive tried everthing camomile tea, relaxing music, trying to clear my mind or count. I know its not the best outcome but if I really can't sleep my last resort which really isn't very often is two phenergan tablets there drowsy antihistamines so not addictive or very strong I know I'll feel a lot better and less stressed after a good night sleep
EmmaFairy
on
Aug 2, 2015
...read more
Turning and twisting in your bed will create negative association to your bed- it's a place where you can't sleep. So go up and try again later when you feel sleepy.
How much sleep should I get daily?
291 Answers
Why can't my mind stop thinking when I'm trying to sleep?
249 Answers
Why do I keep waking up too early in the morning?
247 Answers
How do I stop over thinking at night?
235 Answers
Why can't I sleep at night?
212 Answers
How can I put down my phone and go to sleep?
203 Answers