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Why does my girlfriend cut herself?

Profile: BukiDuki
BukiDuki on Nov 29, 2017
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Sometimes we can get addicted to hurting ourselves. We see self-harm as an escape from emotional pain, and it can make us feel better.
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dancingsnowflake33 on Nov 29, 2017
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Cutting is something that people start when they feel isolated, or scared, or like it's the best option. It is very hard to break that habit, but having loving, caring people surrounding you can make all the difference. Stick by her, and let her know that you're there for her no matter what
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Anonymous on Nov 29, 2017
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There can be a multitude of reasons as to why someone might want to hurt themselves. It is always best to let her know that you are there for her and that she should get help so she doesn't have to cause herself pain anymore.
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Anonymous on Dec 2, 2017
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Your girlfriend is probably depressed but not necessarily. The best thing you can do is to confront her about it. Ask her what's wrong and try to help her with whatever she needs. She is the only person that truly knows why she cuts so you should ask her.
Profile: LoyalLeo
LoyalLeo on Dec 6, 2017
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Cutting can often be an emotional response to feeling overwhelmed by either feelings or numbness. Cutting is in either of these circumstances a coping mechanism to release said emotions, or to just "feel"
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hipsta on Dec 7, 2017
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No one but she can tell you the exact reason but we can know this much:- she’s going through a tough time. People often cut to relieve frustration and agony. Be there for her!
Profile: Emily619
Emily619 on Dec 7, 2017
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Unfortunately, many people turn to self-harm when they're under great distress. Although it's an unhealthy coping mechanism, they find relief within it. If you wish to speak to her regarding it, it's important to remain calm and to not shame her about it. Talking openly, and offering her alternatives to self-harm can definitely be helpful; such as the Butterfly Project, listening to calming music, using ice, etc. Best of luck!
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Anonymous on Dec 11, 2017
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I have experienced cutting myself, each person has their own reasons of doing it. She must have at one point felt the need to start and possibly doesn't have to control to stop. Knowing someone is there for her might allow her to come to the realization that that is not a solution. Maybe ask her and talk about it?
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Anonymous on Dec 13, 2017
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She was probably holding the blade of the knife incorrectly. People are all unique, and some of them have different ways of holding utensils. It is important that we show love, care and concern, supporting each other as we learn the ropes to be culinary masters.
Profile: ConsolingPenguin
ConsolingPenguin on Dec 14, 2017
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She may be going through some emotional situations that she doesn't know how to express into words. As damaging as it is to see her in such a state, remember not to push. If you push for information too much or push her to stop, it may lead to something worse. Be patient, let her talk an listen deeply, maybe consult parents (if you believe if she is in even more danger), and let her figure herself out. She will come to you with it all eventually.
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