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Why does my girlfriend cut herself?

Profile: NameIsTaken
NameIsTaken on Feb 5, 2017
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Self-harm is a complex issue, on the general term it's because of a "need" that gets satisfied only through that. It's not too different from an addiction, so start looking into reasons that make her want to despise herself or that harm her even more than cutting, it's usually one of these two.
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Profile: AnimalLover90
AnimalLover90 on Feb 12, 2017
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It could be for a variety of reasons. Some people do it because they feel numb (almost like they are detached from the rest of the world) and they just need to feel something; almost as if to make sure they are still alive. Others do it for the opposite reason. They are overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions. Their minds are constantly going at 90mph and they have reached their breaking point and just want it to stop. The cutting offers temporary relief. There are other reasons, but these are the 2 most common as far as I know. Cutting is not a healthy coping mechanism and needs to be addressed. Try talking to your girlfriend about it. If she is not receptive, try talking to someone else you are close with.
Profile: Larelya
Larelya on Feb 15, 2017
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Probably to cope with the pain inside of her. Physical pain helps some people to deal with their mental problems.
Profile: Harmank
Harmank on Feb 19, 2017
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Look at her sitiuation, is she stressed out? Is there a bug change in her life? Is she dealing with anything? Don't point out her scars or make fun of her. It's going to make things worse for her and you. Try talking to her first and ask her if she's okay. Don't bother her about it because it may make her feel uncomfortable.
Profile: blindMist53
blindMist53 on Mar 7, 2017
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Maybe you should ask her. It's not my place to say anything for her as I do not know her at all, you should ask her if she's okay and let her know your supporting her every step of the way
Profile: lavendermoonlight
lavendermoonlight on Mar 18, 2017
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She may be going through a lot right now. People hurt themselves because they feel it helps relieve their anxiety and sadness. Self harming may be something she is relying at this point in her life right now.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2017
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There are many reasons that people cut, including low self esteem or body image, insomnia, an ED, anxiety, depression, or even habit. I would suggest lightly bringing it up and communicatingly openly with her, as she's the only one who can really tell you
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2017
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Your girlfriend might be going through a tough time try sitting her down and asking her what had been happening and be very supportive
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 29, 2017
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It could be from a range of feelings, experiences, or emotions. Try asking her with gentle, open ended questions while stressing that you care. Coming across as judgmental (even if by accident) could cause her to shut down and not want to talk about it.
Profile: hopefulPower94
hopefulPower94 on Mar 31, 2017
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There are many reasons why someone may harm themselves. I'll list a few possible reasons. She might want to punish herself for perceived wrongdoings. She might feel numb and pain releases endorphins which cause her to feel something. On the other hand, she might struggle to cope with her emotions in a positive way, and the self harm may temporarily reduce the severity of her emotions. Thank you for supporting her. Feel free to chat with a listener to get some help for you. You deserve support too :-)
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