Why does everyone run away from me and my scars?

Scars are a difficult thing to approach, while they may be a part of who you are and they might have significant meaning to you, other people may not understand why. And that is where a possible awkward conversation may or may not arise, as to say the elephant in the room. Sometimes being asked about scars to us, might not seem like a big deal at times. Talking about it is not something every can or wants to do. Just because they are there, doesn't mean you have to stare. Unfortunately most people won't know what to do at the time and it may lead to a mental stare off. Unless you are comfortable with asking or show and telling. But it is a perfectly reasonable response and if you feel comfortable with answering, let them know they can ask questions if they want just to set aside the awkward area we're in.

People are scared of what they don't understand. It's nothing personal, they just don't know how to react correctly.

Sometimes people run away from the unknown because it scares them. Some people may not understand why you have scars and may be anxious or nervous causing them to run away.

People fear things they don't understand, and most people do not understand self-harm. This does not mean that there is anything wrong with you.

They arent running away from you, you might have just given the person a fright, and if you have known someone a while they might have felt hurt.

Perhaps it's because the idea of getting to know someone on such an intense, deep level frightens people. In order to know someone well enough to accept your scars, they'd have to open up themselves.

Probably because they don't know how to react. Of course it may be a shock, depending on how your scars are, but once they find out what a nice person you are, they will see beyond the scars. Don't feel bad about those who just stay away from you. Those people have their mental scars to deal with which could be just as bad as physical scars or worse. Keep reaching out and don't quit. We all belong, just sometimes we have a hard time finding our niche. People with invisible scars can have an even worse time because they look good but then feel the great let down when they are ostracized because of the scars that show through once people get to know them. Healing is a tough process for all of us.

Some people are not adept at handling such intense issues or dealing with the physicality of some of these symptoms. It's a painful thing to have to deal with but anyone who chooses to leave due to what you're going through, or have been through, is not someone who would be able to adequately support or embrace you. Think of it as them doing you a favour. There are many people out there who don't bat an eye at scars, who don't judge or pull away. Be patient with yourself and eventually you will find the people who will accept you fully.

There are so many fish in the sea so not everyone will be for you and you won't be for everyone. Even I struggle sometimes with this harsh reality. If they don't appreciate you or value you and your imperfections or areas of uniqueness, they aren't for you. Better to surround yourself with people who are supportive and uplifting. You can do this by joining clubs where you have interest, connecting with people who have had similar life experiences to you. Reaching out to organisations you care about to find connections and build a network. Another great thing to do is seek therapy, even if its not for help so much, psychologists and other health professionals can really help hone down on what your personality traits are and how you can better manage your emotions if that's something you could benefit from.