Why can't I tell someone I cut myself?

You should tell someone you trust, and ask for help. Cut yourself will not help you with your problems, and is a good sign that you need help.

Because you're afraid of what they might think. You think they'll judge you and think differently of you.

There are a variety of reasons for people to feel like they can't talk about self harm. Some people don't want to feel vulnerable. Others are scared of being a burden. The truth is, vulnerability and sharing things with people you trust is important to start the path of healing. Those who care about you won't see it as troublesome and they would love to help you, honestly. Some people don't want their friends and family to see them differently. That's why it can be easier at times to talk to a stranger who won't judge you or has been through something similar. If you're ready for a conversation, send me a message and I'd love to talk to you. Stay strong!