What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?

Tell them they're signs of a past struggle, but that you are doing better and always looking forward to moving on and doing better.

Don't try to sugar coat it. People will be uncomfortable, I was also a self-harmer and I told people the truth. I usually told them that I struggle to manage my emotions.

You could maybe say that they are simply a constant reminder of how strong you are and how far you have come. Anybody that feels uncomfortable has the problem and not you, self harm is not something to be ashamed of, we all deal with difficult times in our own ways and your story is unique. No-one can judge you on a battle they have not fought.

You don't have to be honest with them. You can say that you had a bad experience or you don't want to talk about it. Asking about your scars is a personal question, and it's up to you to choose what you want to say. I'm always honest, but if I notice that they're uncomfortable I'll ask why and do my best to help them through feeling uncomfortable. So many people deal with self-harm and it's best to educate people that this type of stuff is common. It's not just you.

Alot off people ask me about my scars because there words, and i tell them that for ever scar on my body was a battle i won because im still breathing.

Well first decide if them asking makes you uncomfortable. If so you aren't obligated to tell them anything. A simple, "I don't want to talk about it." Should suffice. If you want to tell them then tell them. If they are going to be uncomfortable about it, then they shouldn't have asked to begin with. Don't be fooled, many know the story may not be a good one but they still pry out of curiosity.

It really depends on how you feel, do you want them to know how you got them or not? If you do then you can simply tell them that you fell awkwardly on the pavement, that you were cooking and the knife slipped, or simply that you don't want to talk about it. However, if you do want them to know then you should tell them without the worry of them being uncomfortable. Ultimately, you should do what you feel is right.

Usually it's best to tell them as much as you feel comfortable with. If you can be confident in yourself then it will put others at ease. You don't have to tell them the whole story, just as much or as little as you feel is necessary

If you are comfortable, just say they are scars from previous self harm. Honesty is sometimes easier

I just explain how I got my scars and that they are a part of my life that makes me feel proud of overcoming obstacles in my life.