I harm myself on purpose. I never do it because I need to cope, I do it because I like the pain and like to have something on my body. I know I should stop, but I don't want to. Why is that?
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Updated: Apr 10, 2022
Itisbailey
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Apr 15, 2018
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Self-harming releases endorphins, and gives you and immediate euphoric feeling. Pain and pleasure can feel very similar. I just want to mention there is a risk for infection or possible death. I know you say it is not for coping, but maybe you need to find something positive that makes you feel good like self-harm does.
Anonymous
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Apr 15, 2018
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Self harm has been proved to be addicting. This happens because you have put it in your mind that you like it.
peacefulMermaid80
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Apr 18, 2018
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It’s how you are screaming for help, the scars are a reminder of that you need help, and that you aren’t okay.
Anonymous
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Apr 19, 2018
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Because that way you are stronger to the pain that others give you. Hurting yourself is self torture and a punishment for what you did wrong that day.
sillyseraph002
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Apr 21, 2018
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The reasons that people choose to willingly harm themselves are varied as much from person to person as any other choice anyone makes. Part of what motivates you may be the chemical factor that plays a part in the behaviors you are utilizing. Self harm is often described as using one's own body as a drug. Since I cannot possibly know your motivations better than you do, i would recommend that you seek professional counsel for this to help you understand and become more aware of your own emotional and cognitive patterns.
Anonymous
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Apr 26, 2018
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You can’t stop because it like that with phones, smoking, ect. You want to feel the way it makes you feel
Anonymous
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Apr 29, 2018
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Well, from my experience, sadly, we like the way it feels. But, the upside to the whole situation, tattoos are the same thing, but instead of leaving a scar they leave a beautiful piece of art to help tell your story. My suggestion is look into the beautiful world of tattooing, and if you enjoy creating the pain yourself, learn to tattoo. Tattoo your own body. Create art. Perhaps some bad advice, you should also seek professional help.
Anonymous
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May 4, 2018
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It could be because maybe you feel that you don't feel any emotion or feeling. And therefore you cut to feel.
confidentForest19
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May 9, 2018
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Is good the fact you know is wrong.Try to get involve in new activities then you can put your mind in different things.Also try therapy, will help you more profundly.
PinkElephantL
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May 17, 2018
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Physical scars are easier to feel, bleed, and heal than emotional scars. Harming ourselves allows us to feel and see our pain. Then, as the scar comes, we have a secret reminder of the pain we have endured and overcome. Unfortunately, physical pain and scars do not really ease our emotional pain. They just give us more pain in the long run.
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