how i get out of my mind the wrong person?

By accepting that the person whom I am thinking is wrong for me.not necessarily He/She is would be wrong for everyone else. Each one of us comes with limitations and errors. Looking at another person with the view point should yield consideration to his/ her limitations. Then maybe we won't have to try to hard to forget them. We try to hard to making them out of our mind because we think they are hard to forget after what they have done to us. But really we are all but limited and dependent. How can a being as fragile as this can depend and give importance to someone so much that it comes to this that they have to get them out of their mind. We should rather try to pray for them that if the person we are trying to forget is evil that the creator corrects him so that others may not suffer like me and if that person is good then may the creator get others to receive the benefit he possesses and make me better than the person i am praying for.

I have found that I tended to gravitate toward a person given their added value to my life. When I consider what it is that the person brings to my life that causes me to really want to be around them, I am more aware of the reason why I feel a need to keep them in my life. When I am aware of it, I know what I feel is missing from my life and what I could search for outside the person. It would allow me to find that quality outside the person. For instance, if its validation sometimes I seek a healthier means than receiving it from a relationship that is really harmful.