How do accept your scars? How you deal with the always having to be reminded of your failure?

scars are marks that you have done something fruitful..accept it with joy and it will remind you that you've tried, you failed but you tried to succeed. it makes you better than most persons.

My scars, mental, emotional, and physical show me where I have been. It shows me how far I have come, and it motivates me to keep going

Having scars does not mean you failed. If anything, the fact that you have scars should remind you of the hard times you faced and your strength to overcome it (hence why they are now scars, and not still wounds). Also, scars don't always last forever, you can help them to fade if you don't like them. But ultimately the past is what it is, and you just have to look forward.

Your scars are a part of your body so in order to accept them you must accept your whole body which is mind body and soul. Your scars are not your failures they are reminders of the bravery you had to channel your pain into self-harm instead of death. That's emotional bravery at its finest. Your a warrior that survived the darkest thoughts of the mind and you have the battle scars to prove it. The strongest trees snap. It's the softer weaker ones that hold on through the storms. Stay strong friend.

I dont see my scars as failures. I see it as memories. Without these scars I wouldn't be who I am today

Having scars is not a sign of failure, nor are scars anything to be ashamed of or embarrassed by. Life comes with natural hardships that may cause scars or unfavorable memories. Remember, scars do not show weakness, but strength. Your scars are a reminder that you were strong, capable and determined to make the best of your situation. Those unfavorable memories may come when you feel anxious or uncomfortable in some situations but remember you have been through and overcome many hardships in the past. You are resourceful and hardworking! You have been through so much already and have come out more tough and wise from your past experiences. You are capable of overcoming anything you experience in life. Everything is natural, the way you feel is normal and many people can relate to how you feel or even what you experienced. Communication with others who share experiences and have also overcome hardships is another way to become stronger. You may even help others going through what you have already overcome.