How can I help my best friend who self harms?
Anonymous
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Jun 3, 2015
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It may be a scary time for you, but consider what she/he is going through and put them over your own fears. Be supportive.
awesomeShoe25
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Jul 21, 2015
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This is a difficult matter. Non-professionals need to proceed with caution. But as a friend, you can help him or her understand WHY he/she does this. Freaking out or trying to demand they not do it is probably not a good approach because of the inherent judgementalness of it. From people I have known, self harm is often a phase, though sometimes it's not.
OptimisticSunshine
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Feb 9, 2016
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You should ask how they're feeling, do not make them feel guilty about what they're doing, and listen to them.
Anonymous
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May 30, 2016
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I ll listen to her properly. Be there for her whenever she feels alone and tries to inflict self harm
Anonymous
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Aug 1, 2016
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Take away her blades, encourage her to go out for walks or to shop with you and be there for her when she needs you.
animalPoetry40
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May 8, 2017
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I have done self harm myself and I understand what he/she feels. I would start by asking the person why he/she is doing it. Then show sympathy towards them; be caring.
Anonymous
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May 23, 2017
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Don't try to make her stop or be hostile towards her. Even if you are trying to be helpful, she may shut down if you're too aggressive. Instead, just be there for her, treat her as normally as possible, and if she hasn't sought help yet, tell a trusted adult about what's going on so she can be treated.
Bekaloveswwe
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Jun 4, 2018
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try not to get angry, that will make them feel even worse. Try to be calm and figure out the root of the problem. Ask them if there's anything that you can do to help the situation. If he or she will absolutely not stop, you may need to involve the ER or family.
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