What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
DipityEnigma
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Jul 11, 2015
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It really depends on why they might be ignoring you. I'm not saying this is the case, just an example but if you're acting in a way that you don't realise and it upsets him, he could be ignoring you because he doesn't know how to deal with you. However, this might not be the case and it would be better if you give him his own space when this happens and once he's ready to talk, ask him why he ignored you. Whatever he says, try not to take it personally. Getting offended won't solve anything. Listen to what he says, hear him out. Think about what he tells you and how it's affecting him. Think about how you can improve on the things he's stated. I know it's hard not to play the blame game and I know it's hard not to let your ego get the best of you but to make a relationship work, you need to be willing to listen and work on your problems together. Being against each other won't make either of you happy and you'll simply be stuck in a rut. I don't mean to cause any offence and I hope this helps.
PorcelainPyramid
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Sep 14, 2015
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First, breathe. All girls have been through this and it can make us very anxious. If he is really ignoring you you could try calling, but I wouldn't call or text more than once as this could just be annoying and make him more mad. If he's ignoring you because you've done something wrong or you both have you should just apologize for the part that you screwed up with and when he gets over it a bit talk about it calmly. Or it could just be that he needs some space. In this case it's best to not freak out. Just give him time and he will stop ignoring you eventually, just distract yourself while it's happening so you don't get too upset.
sereneSunshine87
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Aug 9, 2015
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I think you should do your best to focus on yourself and reflect on the relationship in general. Ask him why he ignores you. You deserve to know
empathicEars43
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Jan 29, 2018
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For me, I often think to myself 'Ok, he can't be here for me. He's busy or not available. How can I be here for myself?' Maybe that means I need to talk to some of my female friends, or go on a walk, or journal about my feelings, or do my own thing. Be your own best friend. Then you'll find you don't need other people so much. :-)
Anonymous
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Jun 9, 2016
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If your boyfriend really loves you but is still ignoring you,maybe he is taking you for granted. You can start by being aloof,ignoring him in the same way,or you can try giving him some space if you think you are too clingy. Maybe that will help bring him back to you. Don't allow him to take you for granted. And if he doesn't love you and is ignoring you,maybe you should start searching for a new boyfriend
blindAngle
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Sep 24, 2016
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Ignores him also . He will come to you if he is sincere , otherwise don't bother about him . There are so many other people around you
yourOcean42
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Jul 26, 2015
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Have you talked to him about it? is he still ignoring you? Consider what's going on in his world from his perspective. Is there something that could be bothering him that is unrelated to you? Take a step back and breathe for a moment. What is it that you need? What specifically is making you feel ignored? Are there external factors of your relationship that may be making you feel neglected? Are you projecting those feelings onto your boyfriend? If all these questions still point to your boyfriend clearly ignoring you it's time for a calm and open conversations. Approach him with no assumptions of reasons for his behavior. Be honest and clear with your words. Let him know you've felt he is ignoring you and you don't want to jump to any conclusions about why that's happening. Listen.
LovebyChristina
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Jul 24, 2015
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To this question I say, to each their own. Everybody has their own experiences in relationships. Give yourself a moment to breathe and think, and when in a clear mind decide what feels best for you in the situation. If reaching out feels best, do so. If not, leave them be.
openedmind81
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Aug 12, 2015
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Talk and listen, find out what is going on. In many situations the assumptions and conclusions drawn are inaccurate.Address the problem to your boyfriend and get his response.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2015
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Give him space, he probably has a reason.
If it lasts too long, I'd might ask for reasons.
If it doesn't work out, I would hold onto lingering feelings.
Just break it off, he is probably not worth your time.
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