What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
chasingchaos
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Dec 12, 2015
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Everyone has their own way that they cope with stress, overwhelming emotions and changes that happen in their lives. When a loved one starts to behave differently the first thing that people assume is that it has something to do with them. In most situations when someone seems to be pulling away it is because they are dealing with an internal conflict. Other times it may have to do with something that someone has done to them.
The best way to resolve an uncertainty about the sudden behavior changes of a loved one is to be supportive and non confrontational. Instead of assuming it has something to do with you, you can tell them that you are always there to listen and that you will always be there for them. Then with an open heart and complete honesty, directly ask them if you have done anything that has bothered or hurt them. Instead of ignoring how you are feeling or being afraid that you are the source of another person's behavior, it is always best to simply ask. This way you do not have to guess and you can be there, for the person you love, without starting to put up your own self-defensive walls, which may put more of a strain on your relationship. Remember the most important element in a relationship is communication.
Anonymous
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Dec 12, 2015
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I think a good way to go about that is to talk to him. Open communication is key. Make sure you both know how the other feels, and figure out why he might be ignoring you.
7CupsOfEspresso
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Dec 13, 2015
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Ask him what the problem is. Try to figure out if something happened or if you did something to cause him to be upset. Try not to get upset. Listen to what he has to say and what the problem.
lovepaige
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Dec 13, 2015
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Try and understand what is causing him to ignore you and give him space until he feels ready to speak to you. If he ignores you for no apparent reason, ask yourself why you're with someone who treats you poorly.
Anonymous
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Dec 13, 2015
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I know this is hard. But if he ignores you, tell him about your feelings. Tell him how it makes you feel whenever he ignores you. How hurt you feel.
MrRoboticWrites
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Dec 17, 2015
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I would suggest giving him some space for a while, make sure he knows he can talk to you though. After you've given him some space ask him if something is wrong and maybe he'll tell you why he's been ignoring you.
Anonymous
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Dec 18, 2015
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If your boyfriend ignores in any situation, he is not a good boyfriend. You should ask him why he is ignoring me. And if he continues ignoring you or not respond to that question. I usually recommend my friends to find someone better. Since you deserve better than that.
Anonymous
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Dec 18, 2015
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Maybe give him some space. Let him come to you when he is ready. Then he will probably explain the matter and you can go from here.
silverrose
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Dec 20, 2015
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You should wait a little while and ty to talk to him n an hour or so. H emay be busy or his phone may be dead or he may be simply sleeping.
Anonymous
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Dec 20, 2015
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What isn't said sometimes in a relationship is maybe what he wants to say to you. Be your strength..
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