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Profile: LovelyHeart22
LovelyHeart22 on Aug 5, 2015
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When my boyfriend ignored me it was because he didn't want to be with me anymore. He was also lying to me. Some may want time on their own but I think its best to confront him and ask him why he is ignoring you. Its best to talk through your issues, always.
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Profile: StepOneListen
StepOneListen on Aug 6, 2015
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Talk to him. Don't judge or jump to any conclusions. See why or what is happening? Is he playing a game and ignoring you? Is he with family? Does he ignore you at a specific time? Is he just very unaware of it? .What is the situation? These are some of the questions you should be asking Also, you have to know how it makes you feel. If you feel like you are okay with him playing a game or hanging out with friends, let him know that. Are you okay with it sometimes because when you are with your girlfriends you ignore him? Or is it unacceptable? Find out how you feel. And act accordingly. If you feel like he should at least say something back. I don't think that it is too unreasonable to request that. However at the same time in relationships, both parties need to have room for a personal separate life outside of the one they are with. So saying something where you acknowledge the need for that, but also gently reminding him to not ignore you seems like it would be a good course of action. If you feel ignored, tell him that. Express how you feel and say that it hurts you. And that you are not okay with being ignored because it makes you feel (i.e. unimportant, unattractive, insecure) whatever it makes you feel like. Hopefully, your boyfriend is receptive to you and understands that his actions are affecting your mood negatively. If he is still unaware of it and doesn't seem to understand that you are a person especially if it is becoming habitual consider taking a more serious route. A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people, and one one person falls short or is lost it can be very difficult to do the right thing. So I would suggest gently reminded him to be more aware of the way he makes you feel by ignoring you. If that doesn't work consider a more firm approach if you think it is necessary. Ultimately, it is up to you what kind of decision you think is appropriate, but don't forget that you are a person and you deserve emotional nourishment and support too.
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Give him some time to think, if he is ignoring you he probably needs a little time to think by himself.
Profile: Jenniferroseh98
Jenniferroseh98 on Aug 7, 2015
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If your boyfriend is ignoring you,you should question whether he should actually be your boyfriend. However if you really know he is the 'one' you should ask him why and go from there.
Profile: Vaida
Vaida on Aug 8, 2015
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Talk to him about why he is ignoring you. Tell him how him ignoring you makes you feel and in doing that, he'll talk to you about how he feels and both of you can come to a middle ground.
Profile: morphinesama
morphinesama on Aug 8, 2015
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If your boyfriend is ignoring you confront him rather than keeping it to yourself and letting it build up. Let him know that you brought it up because you don't want to be in a place like that and that you feel uncomfortable when you are. Avoid being condescending or forceful, tell him how you feel and try to come up with a solution together
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 9, 2015
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Try talking to him privately about how you are feeling and ask him if he is ignoring you. You may have mistakenly thought he was ignoring you. Something else might be up.
Profile: patientMango29
patientMango29 on Aug 12, 2015
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You should try to contact him and talk to him about what it is that is going on. Communication is key in any relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 13, 2015
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You should it down and have a long conversation about how this makes you feel, you can share your worries with him and let him explain calm why he has been doing so
Profile: kittykat
kittykat on Aug 13, 2015
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If you feel as though you're being ignored or neglected by your partner, it's best to start an honest dialogue with them about how you feel. In a healthy relationship, all parties need to be open to communication so that the feelings on all sides are clearly expressed and understood. If you're able to talk openly about your feelings with your boyfriend, then together the two of you should be able to come up with a solution that keeps you from feeling ignored.
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