What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
Anonymous
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Jun 27, 2015
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You should talk to him about that.
You have to know the reason he's ignoring you.Just ask him why he's doing it and he should explain.
KKGunner
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Jun 28, 2015
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Talk to his friends and relatives if anything traumatic of stressful happened to him. Reflect on if you're made him upset somehow and try to make up for that.
Anonymous
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Jun 28, 2015
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Maybe just wait,he may not be ignoring but busy.Then,just confront him on how you feel.There are times where there are misunderstanding
AcornCactus
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Jun 28, 2015
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That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, but keep your distance. When he does stop ignoring you, you definitely need to address that situation
Anonymous
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Jul 1, 2015
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Do things to keep your mind off of him! Maybe he just needs a bit of space to himself for awhile, and perhaps you do too! If it really is bothering you, messaging him asking nicely why he is ignoring you is also an option.
Ametrine
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Jul 1, 2015
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Give him space and take a break for yourself. Meet your body's needs and continue about your day. Focusing on being ignored will cause unnecessary worry. When he comes back around again--Have a conversation about why he's behaving that way and how it made you feel to be ignored.
MostColorfulHello
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Jul 1, 2015
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People need space to handle and process their own lives - so putting yourself in their position and understanding is a necessity. Give it time.
emb987
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Jul 2, 2015
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Open and honest dialogue is always key to a good relationship. Express how being ignored makes you feel to your boyfriend and have a level conversation about it.
KiSummer
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Jul 2, 2015
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Call or ask him once or twice to explain the situation ...if you don't get a reply, let him come to you. Sometimes this is the easiest way for a guy to initiate a breakup. It's not easy to let go, but if he can ignore you, you deserve better.
avis
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Jul 2, 2015
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It depends on the reason behind his ignoring you. Is it something you did to hurt him? Or is it because he's being mean? Is it a means to punish you? Is it's something that happens often? Is ignoring you his way of communicating his dismay at something? Have you been given a warning before the ignoring happens? Have you asked him directly the reasons behind the ignoring? Lately, have certain of your actions repeated caused tension between your relationship with him? Depending on the reasons behind his actions of ignoring, there are different ways to deal with it!
Generally, ignoring your boyfriend or girlfriend to achieve a goal isn't a very loving or effective way of communication. There are healthier ways to communicate unhappiness, anger, or frustration. If you realize this as a consistent trend, is it possible for you to talk to him about why he uses ignoring you as a way to communicate?
Ultimately, we have the power to express that we don't like being treated a certain way. If being ignored is hurting your feelings and the relationship between you and your boyfriend, it's definitely something worth talking about. The key here is communication.
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