what can we do if the man doesnt want to listen.....?

Well there’s only one thing you can do and that is show him why he should, listening is not always easy. We as human each are unique and have our own reasoning about thing. Sometimes it’s caused by how we were broaght up or someone we look up to, verything that happens in our lives has an impact on how we react to things. When it comes to listening the best advice is to decide what your are not and decide what you are and what you want to be and make a decision which is best for perusing that image