Is it normal to be nervous about getting married?
ForeverForgiven
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Aug 24, 2015
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Yes. I was super nervous when I was getting married. You're starting a new chapter in your life. Marriage is a big step, and a whole new level of commitment.
Supergirl94
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Jun 12, 2017
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YES!!! Trust me I would know ;) I am getting married February 9th 2018, I have had no doubts about our relationship, that he is the one for me or about us getting married. But just because I have no doubts does not mean I am not nervous as hell! It is normal :D Some may think you are insane if you aren't nervous ;) This is a new chapter in your life and a new chapter for your relationship. Your lives will change in many aspects and you will have to adjust to all the changes and get used to being a pair. Yes you were a pair before but as a married couple I hear that is an entirely new thing. Being nervous is good as long as it doesn't lead you down a dark path
Anonymous
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May 30, 2016
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It's completly normal! As long as you know it's nerves of joy and not nerves of doubt Hun! You'll be okay!
WaWeeGee
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Jul 15, 2019
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Yes! Absolutely it is; the mind explores every doubt and every reason TO go through with it. Talking it out with your fiancee is definitely one way to bring down those "pre-marriage" nerves. Discuss all of the reasons that led you to that moment in time, go through the memories of it all and laugh at them. You have a lot on your plate when it comes to a wedding but all that needs to happen is for you and your partner to say yes/I do/etc, and it will all be said and done with. And in the future you will be laughing about that memory of being nervous.
Enigmatica
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Sep 6, 2016
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Very. Marriage is a huge milestone in your life and cold feet or nervousity/anxiety before wedding and when/about getting married is quite normal.
Anonymous
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Mar 12, 2018
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It is normal to be nervous about getting married because it's a new setting and expectation that you may never have been before so you get worried about what will go on or if you may be approachable or not.
MegEliza
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Sep 2, 2015
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Yes! Marriage is a big milestone in life and there are many variables when it comes to the wedding itself (dress, ceremony, transportation, etc.) Try talking to your fiancé about it if you're nervous - it's good to have someone just to talk to, and it's a shared experience between the two of you! Maybe they're nervous too...
Anonymous
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Jan 4, 2016
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Yes. Many people get nervous before getting married. You just need to remember why you love him/her and have your maid of honor/best man help you through it.
Peacefulmeditation
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Aug 31, 2015
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Absolutely, it's a big decision to start a family. Most people feel very nervous as the wedding date approaches.
Anonymous
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Feb 9, 2016
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Absolutely! It is a new chapter in your life and the idea of how your relationship may change can be daunting
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