I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
Anonymous
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Oct 2, 2021
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The height of a person or any other physical feature may not be their choice. It shouldn't be a criterion for another person to love you. There will come a person who doesn't consider these factors as a deal-breaker. All you can do is love yourself just the way you are, and it is not easy. The range of difficulty can differ for every individual. Just understand that it is not your fault, and there is no need to feel bad about yourself. You are strong, and you will find a person who understands and loves you just like you are.
JoshOfTheHills
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Oct 10, 2021
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You're not too short. Nobody is too short to be wanted or loved. Do the things you love, get involved in your community, and you'll meet someone who is more interested in who you are than your height. Dating has become so intentional that it somehow lacks any real intention anymore other than "I don't want to be alone, and if I'm single then I have less value than people who are in a relationship." That's false; and it's a lie to keep you tied up in trying to meet someone instead of getting things done. The person will come, and you're better off meeting them in a setting where the focus isn't, "let's get to know each other as fast as possible so we can decide if we want to get in bed tonight," and is more about whether you want to spend a lot of your time together. Again, your height isn't what defines how desirable you are, it's what you do and the way you treat others -- and how you take care of yourself and those you're responsible for.
michellelistens
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Jan 1, 2022
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Height is something that can not be changed, so your height shouldn't be a determining factor in whether or not you are compatible with someone! If they find that height is a barrier, you may want to consider whether their priorities align with yours, as this would make for a bigger issue in a potential relationship. Sometimes, if such minute attributes prevent a relationship from happening, maybe the person isn't right for you. It may be hard to move on, but there are definitely people out there who don't care about such details, and there are people who are better fits for you.
Anonymous
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Apr 28, 2022
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I don't believe you could be too short for a guy to date. It's all about quality - not quantity :)
Try and strike up conversations with people that have similar interests and you may find someone there. Having a similar interest is really important because you have the first stepping stone to your journey with this person. Some journeys are long and some are short. As I said, it's about quality - not quantity.
Another suggestion is trying the Meetup site. They have all sorts of different groups you can join and meet new, interesting people that have something in common with you.
0OOXOO0z
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May 15, 2022
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Hey there! I would like to remind you that there are a lot of people out there that like someone regardless of their height, even if dating may feel difficult for you at the moment. My advice to you is to just always be yourself. Trust me when I say, that's all that really matters at the end of the day. Someone will like you for you. If your height is in the factor of such, then they may not be the right person for you. Always remember that all bodies and heights are perfect and to never change yourself for the world.
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