I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
Rotem
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Nov 20, 2019
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I am short too (158cm) and have dated tall guys (180-190cm) it's hard and looks funny, overall it is cute! but height must not play a role in a relationship! it's not such a big deal like you may think. The guy you're dating might not care at all anyways.
Be happy with who you are and don't worry too much. There is tall and short and thin and full. People come in all different shapes, it's important to accept and love our self and that way people could love us too.
So don't think you are "too" short and go out there to get the guys!
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2019
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There's no such thing as being too short for a guy. I myself am 4'11 and I'm a junior in high school if that helps you feel more relatable. I'm in high school which means I've stopped my growth spurt and I won't be growing anytime soon. If there's mutual love, the guy will accept you for who you are, not for your height. Your height doesn't matter in relationships, it's the love that you put in that counts. Some guys will take short height in a cute way too. Being short has its benefits: Hoodies feeling comfortable, hugs that'll always feel nice and warm, etc.
brightSun111
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Dec 8, 2019
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I understand that you can feel frustrated as your height is something tou cannot change east however here are a lot of people out there. All sorts of variety off apperance, what are your most positive traits? And how can you best show them off? Personally i like to smile a lot it makes me feel at ease as well as my company too, i also like to find a common interest. Do you have any hobbies you can discuss on your next date? What do you consider a positive attribute in a date? I often have a cheesy joke preparred for when i get tongue tied of the conversation dies down... do you have a favourite joke?
Anonymous
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Dec 15, 2019
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Hey! My boyfriend feels very insecure about his height too. He is 5'8 or 171 centimeters and I am only 3 centimeters shorter. If I wear heels I tower over him. He used to believe he was too short to date as well but hey hes dating me! Your physical characteristics dont determine your value. I can assure you there is someone out there who will fall in love with you and you will fall for them too. You should value yourself! Own your height!! Confidence is one of the most attractive attributes anyone can have. Thats the only thing you can do. Learn to love and value yourself. This is the only body you have, love it!
Anonymous
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Feb 1, 2020
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People don't date each other on the basis of height and if a guy finds you unfit to date him on the basis of some physical attribute then that guy sure as hell is unfit to be dated. Run away from that guy as far as you can. Find yourself a guy who loves you and wants to be with you for what you are, with all your perfections and imperfections. A person who wants to be with you would be in love with your soul and won't care about how tall you are. And if someone thinks about your height before dating you, he might as well date a lamp post.
Anonymous
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Feb 1, 2020
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While your height may not be what you want, there are plenty of people who find all types of people attractive. As a female who is very short, i could never see myself dating somebody over 5'10''. Hope is the best thing i can offer you. If you are a kind person and willing to put in the work for a relationship you will find someone. And although it's extremely cliche. If someone is that shallow is there really any point in pursuing them. Plus standards for attractiveness are always changing. Find other ways to make yourself happy. Do what you love, and love will follow.
SleepySnow69
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Apr 2, 2020
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The right guy is going to love you no matter what your height is. Maybe try to love yourself a bit more and focus on just trying to be happy with your height. There is somebody out there for everybody...keep that in mind. And sooner or later you will see that you worrying about how short you are caused unnecessary stress for you which isn't good. To be honest I myself always thought I was too short until I met my partner who is shorter than I am! Try to tell yourself your perfect just as you are and maybe it will boost your self confidence a bit.
Anonymous
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Apr 11, 2020
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You'll eventually find someone! If someone does not like you for just your height, they obviously aren't worth your precious time. I would say don't worry about it and you'll find someone. Be confident with what you've got! If someone seriously has a problem with your height, then they have some serious insecurity issues, and you should refer them to 7 Cups of Tea for help with that. We have several listeners willing to help them, including me and so many others. If someone thinks that putting someone else down to give them self confidence, then they need a little lesson on how that's wrong.
lifegivesulemons
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Apr 17, 2020
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Dont worry bro. height dont matter, unless in good girls it is. If any girl doesnt want to go out with you because of your height, that's too bs and she shouldn't be considered your crush anyway. On behalf of all females, we do not accept her. Dating and love comes from your personality and however you treat her well. NOT the height. (at least the good dating anyway.) And you might think, 'I havent dated a girl because I'm short for a guy'. Well, I am average height for a female, and it took me 17 whole years to be in an official relationship. And that's with years and years of trying to find the right connection. So don't worry man, height don't matter. Next time a girl hates on you on something you can't change, hate on her for something she can't change either. (pls don't i was jk). and don't worry. I knew a guy who was only a few inches taller than a girl who was 5 feet. They dated for a hell of a long time.
Anonymous
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Apr 18, 2020
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That isn't even possible you are never too short too tall to anything do do anything. If that say that you are too short to date them then take a step back and think if you would really want to date someone that would judge you for something so minor as being short. Or say that they wouldn't want to date you because you are short. And personally I am a short girl myself, and I love my height. In my opinion just be yourself, be true to yourself and don't let anyone put you down or tell you that you aren't good enough because you are.
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