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I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?

Profile: Alishia
Alishia on Nov 3, 2017
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If height is something that becomes a deal breaker for someone, then that person isn't for you at all. Height standards are biased on both sides: some men get intimidated by tall women, some women get disturbed by short men. And it's all based on this idea that the man should be tall and the women should be slightly below them. But there are people out there who don't care about height for either gender identity. My boyfriend is at least two, almost three inches shorter than me. That was something I cared about back in high school when i watched a lot of movies. But once I got into the real world, I saw how much it really didn't matter. A human is a human. You will find someone who accepts you, and someone you accept.
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Profile: heyfriend20
heyfriend20 on Nov 9, 2017
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There is no "You Must Be This Tall" sign in front of the date ride at Six Flags! People come in all different shapes and sizes. And people fall in love with other people of all shapes and sizes. I know it sounds cheesy to say it's whats on the inside that counts. But it's true :)
Profile: SeamusMaraemh
SeamusMaraemh on Nov 12, 2017
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Learn to embrace it, and then look for people who don't mind someone being shorter. I have been with many people who are shorter than me, and it never bothered me.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2017
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You're not "too" anything. You should learn to love yourself first, then find a guy who loves you for you
Profile: Ilovebands02
Ilovebands02 on Nov 13, 2017
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Find a better guy. He's not worth your time if he won't accept you for who you are. I know many guys who LOVE short girls; I'm 5'1 myself. Just remember you're beautiful and you don't need to change for anyone, no matter who it is that's making you want to change.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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There's someone out there for everyone you just have to look deeper. Anyone who looks at your height rather than to get to know you doesn't deserve you.
Profile: MzBabie81
MzBabie81 on Nov 18, 2017
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Currently, my daughter, who is 5 feet 0 inches is dating a very nice guy who is 6 feet 4 inches. They love each other and it has nothing to do with how tall they are. I think that perhaps the issue is not that you are too short, but maybe that your confidence isn't as high as it could be. Your beauty is not hidden in the inches you feel you are lacking. Your beauty is in your smile, in your personality, your soul, your heart. There are parts of you that nobody else has, and that makes you amazing. Even things as simple as the way you laugh, the things that inspire you. Rather than focusing on things you do not have (and can't get), focus on the things you do have... on the things that are *ARE*.
Profile: beenseendoneit
beenseendoneit on Dec 7, 2017
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you can never be too anything too date anyone, what matters the most is you are you and eventually someone will fall in love with everything that makes you you
Profile: heavenMango23
heavenMango23 on Dec 8, 2017
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I know of a few stories of short guys who had enough self-confidence to date taller girls, but assuming that's not the case- i would advice u to date girls who are you're highet or shorter. but, if there's someone you like, even if she's taller, i would advice you to try dating her anyways, who knows - maybe she would'nt mind (although most girls i know do)
Profile: wonderous
wonderous on Dec 8, 2017
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No such thing as being "too" short! Different people ~different preferences!OR~find a short partner♡
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