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Im in a 2 month relationship rn but an old friend recently moved back and I think I’m getting feelings for them but I’m not sure. Nothing is wrong in my relationship what do I do?

Profile: JazzCanHelp
JazzCanHelp on Jul 10, 2018
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You should first decide what you really want, that is the most important aspect. If you decide you want your old friend, just make sure you are ready to let your current partner know that you no longer want to engage in the relationship, and be passive :)
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 26, 2018
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Which one do you actually want? If you want your current boyfriend, try and work through this and make it work with them. If you think this could go somewhere with your friend, break up with your boyfriend. It wouldn't be right for both of you to keep going.
Profile: LonelyMoon42
LonelyMoon42 on Jul 31, 2018
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2 months is very early, especially to know what you want and if this is a relationship which could realisticaly grow. It's normal to reconsider feelings for people we already know when we're in the beginning of a potential new phase, because it's uncertain and can be daunting. The fact that you are considering this old friend could of course indicate that this new relationship is not quite right, but it's early days. Don't make any rash decisions and make sure to give yourself time away from both people to think and consider your true feelings before you make any action.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 9, 2019
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Settle and figure out what you really feel. Don’t make decisions you know you will regret in the end. Take your time. Try to process and take in everything. Give yourself some alone time, and think about what you really want to happen. Maybe you’re just confused or something because you had a past feelings with that old friend you’re talking about. Because sometimes we tend to confuse things, we tend to be confused with an old to the recent that we feel. Just dont be selfish, the three of you deserves the best. You just have to choose the best decision. But always remember that this things happens for a reason. Enjoy your life! Don’t worry yourself too much.
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