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I dont know what to talking about in the first date,and I'am so nervous?

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Anonymous on Oct 5, 2021
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Some great topics to talk about while on your first date: talk about where you’re from, open up about your hobbies (maybe you can find some things to do together), and chat about your ambitions - ambitious people are really attractive to any gender! I would also suggest talking about maybe your favorite music or what you expect from your potential partner (honesty and clear communication are key in a healthy relationship)! It is also really easy to talk about your favorite movies, TV shows, and books. In summary, be yourself and just talk about topics you genuinely enjoy talking about, because dating shouldn't be viewed as a process with a "topics checklist" - try to keep it as natural as possible!!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 7, 2022
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The last time I was on a first date was longer than I want to admit, but I think we just talked about basic things. We talked about music, movies, and TV shows that we liked or things we wanted to go see/watch. I think shared interests are a good start. I like to know birthdays and favorite colors. It helps with 2nd and 3rd dates ;). I feel like first date conversations should be light and fun, nothing too serious. It's just a first date. This is like putting your hand under the tap to see if the water is too hot/too cold. Don't be so concerned with filling the air with talking. Silence is sometimes important. I would stay away from serious or controversial topics. It's a first date, first impression.
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