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How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?

Profile: Fiercelyalive
Fiercelyalive on Aug 5, 2017
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First, it is important for you to stay calm and listen to the other person's point of you without interrupting them. Then, use "I" statements to communicate how you feel, what you think, and what you want or need. Besides, avoid putting down the other person's ideas or beliefs.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 12, 2016
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I'm sorry but I disagree with you as my personal belief are different. I hope you understand that over people have different views.
Profile: softNutella25
softNutella25 on Jul 29, 2016
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A good friendship is built on being able to disagree and still be respectful. Just because we disagree with others, even the ones closest to us, does not mean that we are doing so to intentionally be malicious. If you're honest with your friend, they should be able to understand that you just have a different opinion, but still respect theirs.
Profile: Remina
Remina on Aug 7, 2016
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The way that you can tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings is by politely stating your opinion. You can let them know why you disagree. For example, you could just say "I am sorry, but I just don't agree with you.". it is impossible to agree with your friend every single time! It will just be a matter of how you state how you feel to your friend so you come across as respectful and mature.
Profile: emilyb1999
emilyb1999 on Nov 23, 2017
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You shouldnt worry about not stating your opnion incase you offend someone elses as a human you have been bkessed with the rights to say how you feel
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 28, 2016
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You say, "that's a good point, but what if '.....' that's also a good point also. Do you see my point of view on it, but that's just my personal opinion about it
Profile: Zoelee
Zoelee on Oct 29, 2016
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People disagree with people, and this is fine. Not every two people, no matter how similar or how close they are, will have the same view. This is ok. If you disagree with your friend and do not want to hurt their feelings simply try and say it in a kind and empathetic way. State 'I do not agree with you' and explain why. By explaining why you do not agree with them, it will help them to understand your view, and they will see it is not a personal attack, but instead a view based upon reasoning. Your friend may even be open to changing their opinion after being educated, and vice versa.
Profile: Byron17
Byron17 on Aug 2, 2016
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I would ask my friend questions about the subject. If you are sceptical about a certain aspect of it, then ask them. It might shed some light on a flaw and it could give your friend a different aspect of the subject.
Profile: Strivingforzen
Strivingforzen on Oct 5, 2016
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the old statement "we are going to have to agree to disagree" is very good in this type of situation.
Profile: IntuitiveJay7
IntuitiveJay7 on Aug 27, 2017
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Always acknowledge that you understand the other person's viewpoint and how you can see the reason why they would think that way. Calmly state the reason why you disagree with your supporting facts. If they do not accept that, it's perfectly fine. The goal was to be expressive - not to make a point.
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