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How do I explain to others that it's not their concern if I choose not to have sex?

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Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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In your life you must have your own choices and you must decide what you want and not.your life, your choices. tell frankly!!
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Anonymous on Jul 19, 2016
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Of course, it is none of their business and it is completely up to you! You could just say that you do not want to have sex and don't let anyone pressure you into it.
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Anonymous on Aug 7, 2016
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You say it just like you stated here. It's not their concern. What you choose to do with your body is your own personal business.
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Anonymous on Aug 18, 2016
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I tell them that it's my choice and my life not theirs and that is part of human rights to do what we want and I am free to do what I want, and make my own choice.
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Chantelly121 on Oct 11, 2016
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Remember that your body is only your body, and it's your choice when you feel you want, or are ready for sex. Explain that you want to go at your own pace, and feel perfectly comfortable with doing so
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Remina on Mar 21, 2017
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I am sorry to hear that there are people who are not respecting you and your choice. You don't have to address their questions. It is perfectly okay not to have sex. By not addressing their questions, they might get the idea that you don't think their question is worth the acknowledgement.
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Anonymous on Aug 1, 2017
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You don't need to explain anything to anyone, that is your own personal preference and none that concerns them which you are correct in saying. Just remind them that it is your life and your body and what you do with your life and your body does not concern them.
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cuddlyDay48 on Nov 18, 2017
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It's my choice to not do so therefore you should respect it
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colourfulwriter54 on Nov 21, 2017
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Simply by expressing that this matter is your personal choice that only you has the liberty to decide what to do with it. Much like the opposite when people rage out when they are told not to have sex
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AnjelEars on Jun 5, 2018
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It's your body, and your choice. They can't judge what you did or didn't do. You are you and you can choose whether you want to or not, whether your ready or not.
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