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How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2014
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You need to be able to trust your partner. Communication is the key thing here, talk and make sure you both understand each others needs
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Anonymous on Apr 4, 2015
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You need to trust your partner, you got to have faith that they won't ever hurt you, if you don't trust them then it's time to walk away.
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2015
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Insecureness in a relationship comes from anxiety. What an individual thinks is what an individual imagines, it is best to stop being insecure, by mainly stop worrying and thinking about the positives in your relationship. More importantly, to do not jump to conclusions.
Profile: Lucie27
Lucie27 on Jul 8, 2015
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In my relationships, I've always felt very insecure- so this is a question I can really relate to! Its helpful to remind yourself that your partner is with you because they choose to be. They could leave you, but they dont... they want to be with YOU and nobody else. It helps me to remember this when I feel anxious about how things are.
Profile: MellowTree
MellowTree on Jul 25, 2015
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Being secure in a relationship is very important. Seeking assurance through reality is the most important. The focus should not be on confusing imagination with reality. Each partner must share and communicate what is on their mind and in turn will result in open communicative relationship.
Profile: CHETAN
CHETAN on Dec 31, 2015
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First it’s your relationship with yourself which you really need to work on. It all starts from accepting yourself. It’s impossible for somebody to accept you if you can’t accept yourself. Love yourself the way you are and be proud of everything that you do, even your mistakes. Because even mistakes mean you are trying. People don’t love us because we are perfect. Had it’s been the case, nobody would have found love as nobody is perfect. People love us because how we make them feel about themselves. Love is all about accepting, specially accepting the things which are imperfect. So, if it is a real relationship there is no point of feeling insecure. Otherwise you still have to find somebody who can love you the way you are.
Profile: martigue
martigue on Jan 1, 2016
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Learning how to boost your self esteem is hugely important to do. It helps ease insecurities in all areas of your life, including relationships.
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Anonymous on Jan 6, 2016
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I am an easily jealous person who can get jealous when I see my girlfriend talking with some other guys randomly. Eventually, I realised I overthink too much and noticed that I don't appreciate myself enough. I would suggest you to learn to love yourself by telling yourself that you love who you are every morning. You need to learn to love yourself before you can feel secure in a relationship because only then will you know how lovable you are :)
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Steelymic on Jan 13, 2016
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Try to remember that there are over 7 billion people on this world and only one of you. Everything that you are is utterly unique to you. If someone is with with you - they are with YOU. For all that you are. That includes the things you love about yourself, the things you might not like about yourself and all the things in the middle - the things you don't even see in yourself. Think about why you are insecure? Are they triggers? Is this a pattern? If you can't talk to your partner about this, talk to a close friend if you can.
Profile: Vaux
Vaux on Jun 9, 2016
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Communication is key in any good and healthy relationship. Talk it out with your partner, that way they can make you feel more at ease.
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