How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?

A lot of insecurities in relationships come from poor communication with significant others. If you talk to the other person in said relationship, you can discuss your concerns and confusions with them. It can also help to support sites such as 7cups to talk anonymously, if you are scared to do so in person. Having supporting people in your life that you can talk to is a major step towards being a healthy and happy you!

It depends. How do you make yourself feel insecure? What is this about? Are you afraid to lose your partner?

It is possible to not be insecure in your relationship. Because if you are yourself and the other person fell in love with who you are, there should be no reason to doubt yourself. If the person decides to leave you, you don't have to blame yourself for that if you are merely being who you are inside.

Talk to your partner about the insecurities in which you have. This will enable a stronger emotional connection and will also enable your partner to be aware of what makes you feel that way. It is important to always talk to your partner about anything you feel, as you are enabling yourself to have support to manage how you are feeling in a positive way.

Personally, when I feel like that, I usually sit down with the person and discuss what they want out of this, and focus on that. Yeah, we do get insecure where we think they will leave us and move on with someone else, or we may lose them. But if that happens, then it's not the end of the world.. They just wasn't the one. However, we need to think of the positives to not push them away, as always being insecure and them realizing it can make them feel like they're not being trusted.

Learn how to trust your partner. If you simply can't, they're not the right one for you right now. I'd say either find someone you can trust, or choose to focus on yourself for a while. As harsh as it may sound, YOU might be the issue here.

The best thing to do when you are feeling insecure in your relationship is to speak with your partner about your concerns. I felt very insecure in my relationship at the beginning due to the different "popularity" levels my s/o and I had. I usually would take out my frustrations on him, causing fights which made me feel even worse. Finally, I opened up to him and he made me feel so much better about myself and my insecurities, though they did not go away completely, definitely went to the back of my mind rather than the front. We are now married with a baby on the way :)

Find security within yourself, then reevaluate your relationship with fresh eyes and new confidence.

Open lines of communication. Try to engage the other person with statements about how you feel and why. And before that, be sure to examine your thoughts. Don't judge them as good or bad, but let them pass across your mental stage. That way you can start to think about things more objectively and stop assuming. If you make accusations about the other person just based on your own thoughts, you might wind up doing more damage than you'd like.

Hello, to answer your question because I think the best way that you will not be plowing insecure in your relationship is talking this with your partner and pointing out what is really affecting you and you feel you are doing that. The best ways to solve a problem is through a chat. Now if it's hard talk or you feel sorry, you better write you a letter telling you is happening. Have a nice day!