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How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 16, 2015
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Just talking helps most of the time! Even if you don't have much courage to do so, I doubt your loved one will mind if you talk.
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Profile: Drimezan
Drimezan on Aug 16, 2015
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It takes change to stop being insecure in your relationship. Being able to trust more your partner, not allowing your doubts to creep in your thoughts and being more understanding to your partner's need are just some ways. Consider also personal issues that might cause your insecurities and share that to your partner. A partner who understands will work with you to help you get through it but it will not work if you will not be willing to change.
Profile: heycrysteezy
heycrysteezy on Aug 16, 2015
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I struggle with this every single day. I talk with my therapist about it regularly, and something I learned is that it's a two way street. They shouldn't give you room to feel insecure, but at the same time, you should also work on some things within yourself. As long as the two of you are putting in the effort, you'll get to the place where you feel more comfortable and secure. If something happens that makes you feel insecure, be sure to voice it. "That makes me feel -this way.-"
Profile: bouncyGrace79
bouncyGrace79 on Dec 13, 2015
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Telling your partner about your insecurity might relieve some pressure. Also, signs of insecurity will come out sooner or later, so it'll be less awkward, when your partner knows that side of your personality. Don't be ashamed of what you feel and tell your feelings the people you trust.
Profile: lovepaige
lovepaige on Dec 13, 2015
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I think to stopping being insecure in a relationship is to first, try to identify the areas that are making you feel insecure. Secondly, to learn to turn your negative thoughts about yourself into positive ones and thirdly, understand that your partner wouldn't be with you if you weren't what they wanted.
Profile: 7CupsOfEspresso
7CupsOfEspresso on Dec 13, 2015
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Be open with your significant other about how you feel emotionally and where you stand in your relationship.
Profile: Allisa
Allisa on Dec 13, 2015
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Talk to your significant other, and tell them how you feel and listen to what they have to say, COMMUNICATION is the biggest factor in any relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 16, 2015
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Write down your thoughts as if about someone else, Then think about what you would tell that person.
Profile: StormyAngles18
StormyAngles18 on Dec 17, 2015
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well first, communicate with your partner about your insecurities and see if they can help you and see what can be done OR see if you can find your triggers of you feeling insecure and try to overcome them.
Profile: HumanBeing77
HumanBeing77 on Dec 17, 2015
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to stop being insecure in my relationship I'll try to belive in my partner if I'will have any of doubt I'll try to clear in my own way
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