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How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?

Profile: TheCup
TheCup on Jun 20, 2015
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It only stops when you decide it. When you do, everything will be much clearer than what you think it is. "Insecure" is fear of being fooled, or left out. Be dependent on no one. A person who needs no one is powerful.
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Profile: MyNameIsWilliam
MyNameIsWilliam on Jun 20, 2015
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It's one of those things that are very often different for every person. At times it can be cause of an unhealthy relationship, because of either personal problems or how the other person is doing themselves, or even sometimes incompatibility with each other, etc. It's very important that whenever you feel that you need help and you don't know where to go, to contact any listener out there, especially for problems like these in which are very much so different for everyone. We all care for you and are here for you!
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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Being insecure in a relationship isn't much of a bad thing really as long as it doesn't last for too long. It helps you actually build stronger ties as you're under some sort of stress. It happens to everyone near the beginning of their relationship. But if you feel that you're 'over-insecure', then you probably should talk about all your doubts and insecurities with your partner. Though I would recommend you sitting down and reflecting on your insecurities, and ask yourself if they are justified, can they be improved, or are they really a hindrance to your relationship or you're just afraid pointlessly.
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2015
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so there are insecurities being experienced by yourself in your relationship, yet you are realising these are insecurities and would like to know how to stop them?
Profile: Zozzie
Zozzie on Jun 21, 2015
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Encourage openness and discuss calmly together what aspects you are both happy and unhappy with, and constructively criticise- for example, if you don't like your partner's 'hat', suggest a different 'hat', this will allow them understanding of your issue, but also points them in the direction of a happy medium where they are able to be happy, but can now make you happy too.
Profile: kitten08230718
kitten08230718 on Jun 21, 2015
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It is always important to communicate your feelings to your partner in a relationship. Telling your partner how you feel can help you feel more secure and comfortable in your relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2015
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As with nearly all relationship issues, COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO SUCCESS. Hold a casual (or formal, if you like) discussion with your lover about your insecurities and figure out why you feel that way. If you already know why you feel insecure, then talk with your lover about how you can improve your situation together. Bonding activities such as spending more time together and hearing your lover say reassuring words helps very much. Source(s): Personal Experience.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2015
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just believe in yourself because if you cant trust your own relationship with the person you like how can u expect other to?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2015
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you need to understand the person is with you because they love you. you need to understand you are also in control of your actions in the relationship, and have the right to consent or refuse certain actions your partner desires you to engage in.
Profile: PandaGuy
PandaGuy on Jun 22, 2015
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Make some time for your partner and make sure you are completely honest with your partner. Explain why you feel insecure and if they care they will show you that you have nothing to worry about. It may even bring you two closer with this interaction.
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