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If I talk to a therapist about it, will they make me confront my abuser?

Profile: MPTucker
MPTucker on Oct 31, 2014
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Some therapist may ask if you want to confront your abuser as part of the healing process but in most cases no, because it would cause more harm to you. Now mental they will ask you to confront your abuser because it is part of coming to closure with what has happened to you and giving you better tools to deal with the situations in the future. All of it is done when you are ready to let it happen.
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Profile: AntoniaLovesYou
AntoniaLovesYou on Nov 2, 2014
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No. They will help you come to a place where hopefully you'll be able to. They will help you confront yourself, and how to leave the situation. A therapist cannot make you do anything you are not comfortable with.
Profile: NadiaD
NadiaD on Nov 5, 2014
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Not necessarily, they will generally work with you to identify what course of action will help you to personally move forward from your experience. Sometimes this can take the form of confrontation, but not always. Your solutions will be tailored to your experiences/ desires for the future/ and needs for closure.
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Anonymous on Nov 8, 2014
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Talking to a therapist is probably the best thing to do when you want to confront your abuser. Please reach out for help when you need too.
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Anonymous on Nov 10, 2014
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The therapist is there for you. You won't be put in a situation that could be a potential danger or where you feel highly uncomfortable.
Profile: optimisticSnow80
optimisticSnow80 on Nov 14, 2014
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A therapist will never make you do anything you don't want to do, and generally, they will not make you confront an abuser on your own because they can't anticipate how your abuser will react or guarantee your safety. Generally a therapist will give you the resources to ensure your safety, such as contact info for a battered women's shelter or a contact at the police department who can help you get a restraining order. If they feel that intervention is necessary, which is very rare, they will have the abuser and you present in their office so they can mediate. But since they cannot guarantee your safer outside of the office, they generally will not do this.
Profile: woundedhealer93
woundedhealer93 on Nov 18, 2014
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It depends on the situation, really. If they feel it necessary to confront the abuser based on your own feelings on it, then they may give you the option to confront them. Otherwise, I don't think so.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 15, 2015
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A therapist would never MAKE you confront your abuser. They would only assist you if you chose to confront your abuser. However, in the US if you're under 18, they are required to report any abuse to authorities. So keep that in mind. However, if you're older and the abuse is current, they will help you find ways to manage the situation or help you get out of the situation if you desire.
Profile: Brook
Brook on Apr 25, 2015
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A therapist will never make you do anything that you are not comfortable with. They are there to help you through what you are going through.
Profile: EmmaOmalley
EmmaOmalley on May 30, 2015
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Absolutely not! That is no part of therapy for people who have been abused, since that would not help you and could be unsafe. They will do what is best for you!
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