Should I tell my child my partner is not their biological parent?
ClaireyMarie
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Jul 20, 2015
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I think it depends on the childs age, and mental state. I was only recently told that there's a high chance that my father isn't my biological parent, but being in my 20's, I don't mind. He is my dad as far as I'm concerned, because I believe being a parent stems from actions, not entirely from blood. I'm glad I wasn't told when I was younger, I don't think I would of handled it well.
DesertForBreakfast
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Nov 2, 2014
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Most certainly, in most cases it is shown that a child finding out on their own could be detrimental in more ways than one. While studying sociology & psychology all information pointed me towards telling a child early on, but reinforcing the love of the non-biological parent. A constant relationship is necessary with the NBP before you consider doing this, or it could cause a domino effect of harm.
Anonymous
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Dec 25, 2014
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Has the child asked the question? This one seems to fall under the "if it is not broken, do not fix it" category.
To give a reasonable answer, more information is needed; at least more information would be needed by me.
QuidditchWitch
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Dec 22, 2015
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Yes. Yes, yes and more yes.
If they're of an appropriate age to understand, then they should know. Likelihood is, they're going to find out eventually, and if you've hidden it from them, that pent up anger is going to be directed at you.
SamWise70
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Oct 23, 2014
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Reverse the situation for your answer. Let's say one day you stumbled upon the fact that one of YOUR parents was not biological. Do you think the revelation would be easier for you to handle had they told you about it previously?
Leta1234
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Dec 8, 2014
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Although as a circumstance of their environment children will always question their mold. Any hints help
neverletlifetakeyourspark
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Nov 10, 2014
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Your child would want to know the truth. But don't just flat out tell them. Explain everything, and make sure they still know that you love them. This can be very struggling, but the longer you keep it from them, the more it will bother you and the angrier they will become. It's better to be honest with everyone.
Anonymous
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Jan 5, 2015
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I think that depends on the circumstances. But I am a big believer in honesty being the best policy. The child will be curious about where they come from and that is natural. It is up to the parents about what choice they want to make and what will be best for their family.
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2015
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If I were the parent of a rebellious teen I don't think I would tell the person about being adopted.
HelpWisely
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Aug 2, 2016
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Yes and the earlier the better. It's always better to be honest and upfront with your kids, it is possible that they will react in a negative way when you tell them but in the long run they will appreciate that you spoke the truth.
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