I'm considering giving up custody of my child. How do I decide?

The most important thing to consider is if you are able to provide safety and security in a loving environment. I would consider what support systems you now have in place. Raising a child is a tough job ! You need people who you can rely on for emotional support and also coping/parenting strategies for when things get tough. In the end, it is really all about what is best for your child. If you are not able to care for your child, that does not mean that you will never be able to. It is possible that you might have to step back for awhile until you can provide for them.

This must be so hard for you. Nobody can tell you how to feel or what to do, but consider this... Will giving up custody of your child be better for them in the long run? The most beautiful thing a parent can do is to be selfless instead of selfish. If you are giving your child up to give them better than you are able to give them in whatever sense of the word, then I applaud you. So many times, parents cling to their innocent babies and I understand why, but to love that child enough to set them free and allow them to flourish, that is one of the most honorable, courageous acts a human being could ever make. I truly hope the best for you and your child as well as the other party involved, just please educate yourself on your rights and duties, and take enough time to make an informed decision in the right state of mind. Make an intellectual, not emotional decision. Good luck, and thank you for sharing. I am rooting for you all!

This is a very serious decision that will affect you the rest of your life. Giving up custody means that you will most likely not gain custody back unless something horrible happens. Nobody wants that! The best thing for you to do when making this decision is determine why you wish to give up custody. Is in the best interest of your child?

This is one of the hardest things that a person has to deal with and it is a choice that cannot be made lightly. As much as it frustrates people to say, this is a decision that can only be made by the people involved. You have to look at all of your options and make sure that this is the right choice for you and your family.

There are many things to take into consideration with that. You need to ask yourself if you can provide adequately for your child (love, support, necessities, etc.). If you can't come up with an answer, seek advice.