How do I support my child or teen that has been sexually assaulted?
mellowforsure
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Jun 18, 2015
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The best you can do is remind them that none of what happend is their fault and set them up with a counseling. Be understanding if it takes them awhile to get things togther.
Anonymous
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Oct 26, 2015
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Try to include them in everything you do. make them feel safe and let them know that even though something bad happened you are always there and you will protect them
Anonymous
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Apr 13, 2018
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Try to get them connected to a counselor if they are open to it. Someone experience in working with teen victims of sexual assault/abuse. Offer support and care but respect the boundaries they set for you.
Anonymous
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Mar 12, 2019
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The best thing you can do for them is to just be there for them and love them endlessly. Comfort them and love them through sadness, tears, pain, hurt, anger and frustration. That's the best way to support your child/teen - for them to know they can always lean into your loving arms and you'll always be there even if you don't understand. I was a victim myself of sexual abuse and that worked miracles for me, knowing my parents were there and weren't angry at me and that they love me still. So just love your child, that's the best you can do
Anonymous
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Jul 21, 2020
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The best thing you can do for your child is to be there for them and to listen to their frustrations, trauma, and worries. As a parent, your child views you as their emotional pillar of wisdom and support. It is also good to check in on your child throughout the day to see how they're doing and to emphasize the amount of trust they can have in you. Additionally, it's important to not push them into saying things until they're uncomfortable. Regarding situations such as sexual assault, it is best to let your child talk about the things they're comfortable with at the time and to let them slowly reveal more of their thoughts as time progresses.
Psychstudies13
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Sep 8, 2020
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Sexual Assault is a sensitive topic. For both, you and the other person. If they talk to you about it, you should first just hold them. They've taken the biggest step and the scariest one - they told someone.
Give yourself a day to understand and absorb the information. You don't need to respond at that moment. You can take some time and think. If they know the person, you can decide whether or not your child/teen would want to take action against them. You can try talking to them and making them understand what choices they have. If they need professional help from a therapist, do let them know it's available.
Above all, just make sure they know that you are there for them and supporting them. At that point, that matters the most.
Hope this helps! :)
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