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How do I know when my child is mature and responsible enough to have a pet to care for on his own?

Profile: KurtCups711
KurtCups711 on Jul 24, 2018
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Pets are great for childhood development at any age. As a parent, assume they cannot manage the responsibility alone. Plan to take care of the pet with them and you can be pleasantly surprised if they don't need your help.
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Profile: Noreb
Noreb on Feb 7, 2015
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I would say that if your child is responsible enough to take care of himself, i.e., brush teeth take a bath, feed themselves etc, that is sufficient. You will still have to remind them and be sure it gets done, but taking care of a pet is a great teaching moment for responsibility.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 3, 2015
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you wont know it till you give him a chance.....buy him a pet even if hes not mature he would be taking a step to be mature.... :)
Profile: Neil22713
Neil22713 on Apr 13, 2015
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The fact is there is no specific answer. Try starting with a small pet like a goldfish or something that is easy and low maintence or even by allowing them some small responsiblity with a family pet. Then work your way up to their own pet as you see them succeding along the way!
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Anonymous on Apr 29, 2015
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Observe their care of their possessions and how they handle their chores. If they handle these with care, they will likely also handle the pet in the same manner.
Profile: butterflykisses27
butterflykisses27 on Jul 11, 2015
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When they can take direction from you and complete the task on a regular basis. Taking responsibility for other things around the house is a good indication they maybe able to care for a pet.
Profile: TheFilipinoHeart
TheFilipinoHeart on Aug 10, 2015
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Bring him/her to a zoo and that should act as an examination to test whether or not he/she will have a pet to care on his/her own.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 1, 2015
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You know there child best and you can always help if needed. Can they tidy their room regularly, make their own breakfast or snack? Give them small responsibilities such as doing dishes or taking out trash? Teach them the importance of tasks and reward them with praise encouragement and their own pet :)
Profile: vinylbkwrm333
vinylbkwrm333 on Jul 25, 2016
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I would honestly start out with a plant, then a fish, then a small bird. If you have a family pet for the whole family, try assigning tasks for the child to regularly feed, water, walk or otherwise care for and clean up after that pet first. I know so many pets that were given away because a parent or grandparent gave the child a pet with the best of intentions, but the child quickly loses interest because other things compete for time and attention.
Profile: Bonnie1
Bonnie1 on Nov 21, 2016
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How does your child handle his other responsibilities around the house? If he does his chores with relatively little protesting, and is able to manage his schoolwork successfully, then perhaps he is ready for the responsibility of a pet.
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