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How can I tell my parents that I'm gay?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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Wait for an appropriate time when things are going really well and say you have something important to tell them, and slowly tell them piece by piece, if they're good family they'll be so proud of you for telling the truth instead of bottling up all those feelings.
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Profile: ChristopherK579
ChristopherK579 on Jun 19, 2015
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You can come forth with your sexuality in many ways, and its all up to you what way you choose to do it. Wether that be something elaborate, humorous, or even just a conversation your guardians should be accepting of your choices.
Profile: seroloppo
seroloppo on Jul 11, 2015
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You shouldn't say it suddenly but you can try to say it in time slowly and slowly maybe you can start with show it with your clothings etc believe me they will try to understand you.Being gay is not something you emberassing it and I respect LGBT and don't forget that there are so many person respects like me :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 31, 2019
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Opening up to your parents about your sexuality can be a really scary and anxiety-inducing thing. The best thing to remember is that, unless you know otherwise, it's usually a pretty safe bet that your parents will love and support you. They may be surprised and it might take them a while to fully grasp it, and it may cause conflict if they don't fully understand or something, but in general, parents will do what they can to support you! It may take them a while and you should be prepared to answer many questions from them, but if you remain understanding of their reaction (as long as their reaction isn't hurtful or abusive to you in any way), then you'll be okay. If you don't know whether or not your parents will be accepting, a good method is to drop subtle hints for a while and gauge their reactions before completely coming out to them. It may be the case that you should remain in the closet for your own safety, but best of luck to you and I hope it goes well if/when you tell them!
Profile: Dakota1978
Dakota1978 on Nov 17, 2019
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How you tell your parents you are gay depends on who they are. Some of them might not mind it to much others might go crazy. If you have super religious parents it will be hard to come out to them because they might start taking things out of the bible and trying to convince you it is wrong to be gay. If you have parents that are not super religious it can still be nerve racking to come out but it would be easier. If you have gay parents you have nothing to worry about because they already accept themselves for being gay so they will accept you. The easiest was to come out is to rip it off like a band-aid. Be quick and try not to over think it. But remember no matter what there is someone out there who will love you for who you are.
Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Dec 1, 2019
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You can express your feelings as openly as you can, tell them what it means to be who you are, how you realized you are LGBT, and reassure them that nothing changes in who you are as a person, you're still you though this part of your identity is different than they thought. Make sure they know you want to share it with them because they are important to you, and maybe tell them that you believe in your relationship and you're sure they know that nothing changes in the person you are. You can also encourage them to ask you any questions they have about it. Be patient, it's possible that they'll need more time to come to terms with it, but what truly matters is that they give you a chance to be listened and understood: that's a signal that they're willing to give you a chance. Ultimately, those who really love and care for you will accept you for who you are and they'll just want you to be happy, no prejudice can ruin real love! If you're feeling very uncomfortable, you can even consider writing a coming out letter.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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With this information we are trying to help you about how best to approach your parents with what maybe regarded by them as news they may well find shocking. You must be prepared for the possibility that this shock may result in a reaction that you may feel to be rejection. Try to understand that this will hopefully become acceptance given time, so be patient and try not to give way to anger if your news results in what you feel are hurtful responses. Many parents have difficulty with openly discussing sex. You will probably be aware of the level of their ability to speak on this matter and should take account of this in your approach. Obviously you will have worked out that your existence need not indicate that your parents are very knowledgeable about sexual subjects. Perhaps the amount of sexual knowledge they have imparted to you should be a guideline.
Profile: VickieLynn
VickieLynn on Jun 20, 2015
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Be straight forward. Tell them in a calm and professional manner and be sure to mention that this is what makes you happy.
Profile: ArisThuMan
ArisThuMan on Jun 20, 2015
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It is different for every person. There isn't one way to ask the person you love out, or one way to apologize to someone. However, here is my advice. Just be blunt and honest. I promise you that it will feel really difficult, but it WILL be worth it. The gratification that follows is incomparable. Don't be afraid to tell them, and don't try to be subtle about it. You also must understand that this may be difficult for them to comprehend as well, but you will most likely be fine. If you feel like your parents may respond in a way that is harmful to you, do not try to force it. If they react violently, seek help immediately! Good luck, and I hope it goes great! It usually isn't too bad, so don't worry to much about it.
Profile: MissCarla
MissCarla on Jun 20, 2015
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Chances are that your parents may already know. But incase they don't try and get them to sit down together with you and explain your feelings and that you are gay.
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