How can I tell my parents that I'm gay?
SecretlyHigh
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Jul 8, 2015
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I think you should properly sit down with them and start by telling them how you always felt different. Instead of saying "I'm gay" you should say "I'm attracted to the same sex" this will make it sound a bit better to them. If they reject you or treat you bad. Know that it's not your fault and it's definitely not the end xxxx
Anonymous
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Jul 8, 2015
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Mom..? Dad? I like a guy in school.. He's cute.. Nice.. and all of the above. I think I'm gay. I really like him.
Anonymous
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Jul 8, 2015
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How I did it was by trying to find out their opinion on the LBGTQ+ community. Then I sat them down when they were reasonably happy and told them about how I came to the conclusion I was gay. Just remember, it is not just about telling them your sexuality but how you have felt.
Anonymous
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Jul 9, 2015
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I think this entirely depends on your relationship with your parents. For one, your parents may be extremely accepting, or they could be extremely judgemental. Since I don't know you or your parents, I would say the best course of action may be to sit down with them, and start a conversation as, "Mom, Dad, I have something I need to tell you..." Try to keep the conservation as civil as possible.
xxnano
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Jul 9, 2015
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Have confidence, and be happy about yourself. Start off by telling one parent, either your mom or dad, because it will feel easier. Have advice from other people who came out. Choose a right, appropriate timing. Be prepared for their reactions, they could get hurt or shocked. And whatever they say, just tell them that you feel no differences towards them, because at the end, they're still your parents no matter what.
lovelyCupcake26
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Jul 9, 2015
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first you need to make sure your ready. then sit your loved ones down and tell them who you are. and part of who you are involves loving the same sex. which is completely natural. and as long as your being safe everything is ok.
prettygrlnay
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Jul 9, 2015
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Well in my opinion tell them when you are ready and make sure you have someone by your side and will be there for you because not telling how your parents will take the news
PrincessSwag16
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Jul 9, 2015
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If you want to tell your parents about your sexuality you can sit down with them and then set it straight. Say "Mom, Dad, I have something to tell you. And it is very important and very serious. I have figured out my sexuality and I am gay. I know you may not have expected this, but I want, no need, your support in this. It would really help me and mean so much if I could trust you will be there for me."
towardsyourzenith
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Jul 9, 2015
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There are a few things to figure out beforehand. First, are you sure of your sexuality? It's very common for parents to ask how sure you are, or to suggest that you try being with someone of the opposite gender. Second, are you comfortable with it? If you're not confident in who you are, then maybe you should wait to tell your family if you're not sure how they'll react.
If both of the above are taken care of, then try to find a way to have a one-on-one, (or one-on-two) calm conversation with your parent(s). You know them best, and you know the emotional climate at home in order to choose timing. In my case, I told my father right before he left on a business trip because I knew that I might not see him for a long time. If you're living with your parents and/or are financially dependent on them, then it's okay to wait to tell them. Only you know the situation well enough to make an informed decision.
Also, don't be surprised if your parents take time to adjust. My mother wasn't happy at first, and she mourned the straight life/family that I wouldn't have. It took her a few years to become comfortable enough to talk about it openly with me. Every parent is different.
However you choose to do it, make sure that you have the right motive. Never come out during a period of anger or during an argument. Be patient with your parents. I wish you the best of luck, and I welcome you to message me if you want to talk one-on-one about it!
Heretohelp1990
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Jul 10, 2015
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I did it through e-mail because I always found it the most simplest and easiest way to communicate things that i was not comfortable with yet. Do it in the most comfortable form of conversation you normally have with your parents.
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