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Why do I sometimes enjoy feeling sad?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 30, 2016
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Allowing yourself to feel sad, just means that you're allowing yourself to be in touch with your emotions. Holding certain emotions back is unhealthy.
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Profile: cloudystarlight
cloudystarlight on Nov 11, 2016
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In everyday life we're expected to feel happy and good because it makes others uncomfortable to deal with unhappy people. We learn to bottle up frustration, anger and sadness. However, sometimes it just feels good to just loosen up that emotional corset and be sad for a while. It's normal and healthy to not be happy all the time.
Profile: scotty4947
scotty4947 on Nov 3, 2016
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Throughout my life, I have enjoyed sadness before. My life was very boring/dull. I didn't have much going on and everyday felt the same. I enjoyed feeling sad because it made me feel something different, something outside of my day-to-day norm. Maybe the same is happening for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2015
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I think sometimes its humbling to experience the emotion pallet. If were always in one set mood, the highs dont seem so high not the lows seem so low. When we experience things in different settings, I think it helps us recognize whats truly good in our day to day life
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 3, 2018
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Because no one is happy all the time and it takes a lot of energy to pretend to be happy when you actually want to just be sad.
Profile: 11lovingkindness11
11lovingkindness11 on Nov 3, 2016
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Sometimes, I enjoy feeling sad because it lets me know that I am healing some where that I am hurting.
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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Forcing yourself to feel happy all the time only puts pressure on you. Being sad sometimes makes you appreciate happiness.
Profile: FoodForTheSoul
FoodForTheSoul on Sep 24, 2016
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It just might be that, paradoxically, the only way you know you can feel better is by reveling in sadness for an ephemeral period. This can include tearing up which in my experience helps me feel a lot better.
Profile: NickDB14
NickDB14 on Apr 19, 2016
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There's a healthy balance between too much happiness and sadness. I happen to enjoy being sad every now and again. It keeps my emotions in balance. :)
Profile: Blueteaburrito26
Blueteaburrito26 on Nov 24, 2016
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This is possibly because it has become a regular emotion in your life that you most likely fall back on as a cushion to feel normal or even to cut yourself away from situations you dislike. You may also be experiencing confidence issues which make feeling sad validated in your everyday life because you feel you deserve that.
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