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Why do bad things happen to me? I've never been a 'bad kid'.

Profile: ToFollowThatStar
ToFollowThatStar on Jun 11, 2015
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It really sucks that bad things happen to good people. I've gone through episodes where I've been rejected by girls, teachers, judges at auditions... and it just makes you feel like you're worthless. Like maybe if this happens so often... you probably deserve it. And that's not true. Shakespeare's Julius Caesar has a quote:
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Profile: izza
izza on Feb 12, 2015
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First of all I am sorry that bad things happen to you ,you don't deserve it. No one does, not even a "bad kid" deserves these things happening to them. I think that it is fair to say that regardless of whom you are as a person and what you offer to the world, if a bad thing does happen to you in the end it only makes you stronger, yes we shouldn't want bad things happening to us but we also shouldn't have this attitude in which we question why. Questioning and saying "why me?" forces you to dwell on this and puts you down, this energy can be used and channelled to work on coping and recovering from these bad things. After all that's the most important thing, moving forward.
Profile: friendlyDeer
friendlyDeer on Nov 8, 2015
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Expecting life to treat you right because you’re a good person,is like expecting a tiger not to kill you because you’re a vegeterian
Profile: Br33zyS3tz
Br33zyS3tz on Jul 29, 2015
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Sometimes life has a mysterious way of delivering us with instances, with circumstances, with life situations which we cannot even expect, which we may not deserve; it takes courage and persistence to continue forward, to push past boundaries and troubling time, stress and negativity. Its important to remain faithful and true, to believe in yourself, to take initiative and be willing to push past unfortunate events; what happens in life does not define us, what defines us is how we progress forward, how we learn, how we grow and continue to live.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2015
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Sometimes bad things happen to people. It doesn't mean you are a bad person, the way you react to that bad thing determines that.
Profile: blissfulAngel
blissfulAngel on Apr 11, 2015
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These "bad things" are here to make you stronger.You have to learn from them and fight through them!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 19, 2015
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it depends your situation and also those people who are involved to make it bad to you . i hope this helps to answer your question.
Profile: Ansley
Ansley on May 16, 2015
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Life is not subjective, my friend - circumstances don't mind whether or not you're playing by the rules. I'm so sorry you're having bad stuff happen to you, though, and I hope things get better for you soon. We're always here to talk to.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 27, 2015
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Bad things will always happen to good people, but this is what makes good people great. A flower has to grow through dirt before it blooms.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Mar 21, 2016
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Bad things happens to most people. The idea is to turn that bad things around to make it as a lesson and never letting it happen again if possible. And if it does happen again then you know that you have more to learn and keep moving forward.
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