What should you do when you don't know how to figure out where you stand in other's heart?

I would open an honest dialogue with them, you will need to prepare yourself for their honest answer. Ask them to be genuine and straightforward with you. Remember to stay calm but in command of your own feelings. Good luck! Namaste! - Brandi

This is going to be a dumb answer, but try asking someone close to them, like a parent, a sibling, or a friend. Asking the person them self might be a bit akward.

When you do not know where you stand in another person’s heart, you must tell them how you feel in a straightforward and calm manner. Understand some people may not understand how you feel unless you communicate with them your emotions. They may not know how they feel as well, so have patience and be understanding with their situation. Communicating your feelings let’s both sides understand what is going on with mentally with the other person. It is important to consider how they feel when talking with them. Sometimes people go through emotions and events they do not understand which may cause them to be frustrated and confused with other things going on in their life. Always communicate how you feel because communication may help you understand what you feel, what you are going through and how it affects others in your life.

I would suggest communicating with that person directly. I know it sounds scary. As great as it would be to have superpowers, we cant read their mind. The next best thing is to just ask them directly. The answer may not be exactly what you wanted to hear, but it's better to know than to stay in this endless state of confusion and uncertainty. "What if" statements do not help. Instead they have the potential to hurt us further in the long run. Be confident and direct and get the closure and peace of mind you deserve. Good Luck!

Take a moment to see what qualities and strengths you have to offer. Know that there is no one else like you in this world and that's what makes you special. If you are not sure what value the other person holds for you, think about some of the experiences you have shared with that person and the responses you got. If that makes you happy and helps you feel like you are valued then that is what matters. If something does not add up and you are still a little unsure, then take some time to evaluate what that person means to you. It's probably something you should re-evaluate.