I never feel the right emotions at the right time, can I change that?

you can not practice emotional. its the feeling that you have in certain situations. there may be other reasons for this but the most common is absent mind and not giving enough importance to that particular situation. Try to be more focus and involved in particular situation.

You absolutely can change it! I believe that we choose our emotions, whether consciously or unconsciously. The first step to changing your emotions is to become aware of them. When you realize what you're feeling at what time then you can ask yourself whether that's what you want to be feeling in that moment. If the answer is no then ask yourself what do I want to be feeling right now and imagine, in other words pretend, that's what you feel. At first this will feel awkward and forced, but after practicing a few times choosing your emotions will feel just as natural letting them choose you.

It may not seem like it at times, but you are always in control of your emotions and thoughts. We cannot control what happens to us, but we are in complete control of how we react to the things life throws at us. Not that controlling your emotions/thoughts is easy--it's quite the contrary. It takes practice and a strong desire to change, but in the end it's worth it.

Nope, you are a post-processor....meaning your mind goes in self preservation mode as to protect yourself.... This is usually common in people who have experienced traumatic distress in their childhood or even adult life......it's basically our minds saying "wait, before I process this feeling let me make sure it's one worth remembering and feeling"

Everyone expresses emotions differently. People celebrate in their own way and people grieve uniquely. There is no cookie cutter way to feel the so called "right" feeling at any given time. You are your own person and you feel what you feel when you feel it. Acceptance of yourself is a wonderful way of working through that. If you want to change, exercise a listening regimen with friends and family and pay attention to reactions and then line those reactions up with how you're feeling. Only do this for you, because you want to. Not because someone wants you to.

There are no rules in feelings. No right feeling at the right time. You feel what you need at the moment that you need in order for your body and mind to have the optimum functioning

We are influenced by environment, family, events, the media and others throughout our life span. Human have the ability to differentiate between right or wrong. Sometimes we are getting confused by others. Most people think all people do that means it is reasonable. But here quality is matter. We can practice free will in deciding what to do with them when they arise. For example, I saw a television advertisement where it shows give a rose to your love one. I thought every person like flowers from their loved one. But I then realized my loved one like bird. So do not try to influence by others. You are unique with your unique personality. So believe in yourself. Walk in others shoe, you will find how to feel the emotions at that time.