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I find myself thinking of people as useless and tedious. What's wrong with me?

Profile: juniper20
juniper20 on Jun 20, 2018
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Part of depression is isolation. Whether you have a lot of friends or very little; your brain will tell you not to care about them so you can isolate yourself. You might convince yourself they're lying to you, they don't care about you, or that they are just plain annoying. You might have depression or another mental illness. See a doctor to get a diagnosis and start treatment so you will no longer think they are tedious and useless. You can be happy!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 3, 2018
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maybe you are too active as compared to others that’s why....the way you think the way you decide the way you work it’s all part of your body and mind....and as you know nowadays people just want easy money that can be the reason you think like this about others and nothing is wrong in that...but just don’t be rude to anyone by telling them that they are useless try and motivate them instead 😊
Profile: warmPudding59
warmPudding59 on Jul 4, 2018
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You might be thinking in this pattern to protect yourself. Try to do some soulsearching about how you feel about being vulnerable.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 19, 2018
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Nothing's wrong with you. Your way of seeing things show you're having early depression. But that's okay : you're not alone and there's people here you can talk to :)
Profile: RiverOfDreams
RiverOfDreams on Jul 22, 2018
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You may need to go to the root of the cause and ask yourself why you feel this way. I'm sure you're not a terrible person and there's a good reason why you came to this conclusion, just don't be satisfied with settling for a negative conclusion if it bothers you that you ended on one. Open the discussion with yourself back up.
Profile: Ikwan777
Ikwan777 on Aug 11, 2018
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You are likely having a cognitive distortion - an irrational thought process that often occur automatically and reinforced by certain core beliefs. Cognitive distortion could also result from unconscious adaptation to negative events.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 12, 2018
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Sounds like you are burnt out on the people around you . Maybe take sometime to yourself and regroup .
Profile: avanef
avanef on Oct 4, 2018
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Nothing is wrong with you. We are all entitled to our own opinions but it doesn't mean you're right or wrong. It may be because you have seen/met some people whom come off that way to you, but it is all based off of what you see and other information from there. In general though, nothing is wrong with you. If you find yourself thinking this is something you think of a lot, then it doesn't hurt to meet up with those people and maybe talk some of those things out, maybe they'd like to know. If not, I doubt it'll do any harm to anyone and I'd just let it go.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 6, 2018
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Well I don't know exactly what could be wrong with you but please do not be harsh on yourself. I can kindly suggest some reasons why this could bve happening. First of all , useless and tedious are absolute words, meaning you leave no room for compassion and understanding, but only judgement. You judge those people on high standards and you always look for faults and weaknesses and when you find some you can't embrace it. This could be because someone close to you, your parents maybe used to or still judge you hard. Because someone didn't taught to you how to embrace vulnerability, how to embrace human sides, someone maybe judged you hard too. Another reason could be degrading a person when truly deep down you want them to acknowledge you. Being afraid to claim it or trying to gain their ackowledgement and failing, ends in you trying to degrade all people in fear of accepting you probably would like to hang out with some of them. But the main problem is you can not love someone else with all their faults and wekanesses without loving yourself. So please think how hard or not you judge yourself. Think if you project on other people feelings and emotions you hide inside you. Judging so hard means someone taught you this way. It could also mean someone treated you this way. Whatever it id, please work with yourself to find some happiness. Acceptance and understanding towards you and others takes a long time, but it is 100% possible. Best wishes from me :)
Profile: FlintWolf
FlintWolf on Dec 21, 2018
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I don't think anything is wrong with you, but maybe the way you're framing how others have contributed to your own well being. The guy who changes my tires might have no teeth and no education, but he's there for me to change them whenever i need. Just because he's not as good at something as I am doesn't mean he's useless. As far as intellectual stimulation goes, it's always a good idea to turn off the TV and the cell phone to reevaluate ourselves, then have a good cry to come to terms with our faith, spirituality, philosophies and moral principals.
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