I find myself thinking of people as useless and tedious. What's wrong with me?
sharkradio
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Nov 16, 2016
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There's nothing inherently 'wrong' with that line of thinking; what has to be examined is what has lead up to this line of thinking. When I was working in customer service, I frequently found myself thinking HORRIBLE things about my customers because I was dissatisfied with my job and believed that I had no sustainable future. It's that kind of jaded apathy that breeds thoughts like this, so I think it's important to examine where you are right NOW and why these types of thoughts are cropping up.
Anonymous
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Nov 17, 2016
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Nothing is wrong with you! Sometimes people have different tolerances of certain species, and humans are no different. You could try to see from their perspectives, but I swear nothing is wrong with you.
Anonymous
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Dec 9, 2016
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This may have probably resulted into something that has happened in your past. Either someone made you feel tedious and useless or you have witnessed people who are close to you become something like this. This is all hypothetical by the way
Anonymous
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Dec 17, 2016
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Nothing is wrong with you! You're just under whelming the power of what other people can do. Sure, people can do things that might question your way of thinking, but that's what it is to be unique. Don't ever think that something is wrong with you, you're as unique as they are!
Anonymous
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Dec 22, 2016
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Times of stress often reflect heavy workloads and frayed nerves. When we feel more burdened, others may appear to be doing less. Thus, it is completely natural for people to sometimes feel like others are less competent.
friendlyPerspective32
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Jan 7, 2017
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I tend to find myself thinking that too sometimes but perhaps we may just have really high expectations for other people that they cannot meet. Though we are not inherently bad, we are all humans with our own imperfections and limitations. It would be good to understand where other people are coming from first.
marvelousBlossom86
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Mar 16, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. People have different skills, talents, and intelligence. Maybe you just haven't seen them in their element, when they're applying these talents to be productive. Keep this in mind the next time you think of people as useless and tedious.
racheliza26
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May 21, 2017
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You are probably feeling disconnected from those around you. It is important to try to keep connections with people to understand them and yourself.
museofdreams
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May 25, 2017
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Useless? Tedious?
Well... why do you feel this way? What makes you feel people are this way?
Do you feel we're all boring? We just demand things of you and give nothing back? What exactly makes us any of these.
There's nothing wrong with you, you just need to identify why you feel this way and trace those thoughts back to yourself; We choose how we feel about stuff, nothing's wrong with our views, but that doesn't mean they are constructive in helping others.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2017
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You might unconsciously be afraid of yourself being useless and tedious (due to some childhood experience where you felt that way) and you're trying to convince yourself you're productive and straight forward by comparing yourself to others, perceiving them to be useless and tedious. You can tell a lot about yourself from what you admire in other people and what you really don't like in other people. What you admire in others can tell you about qualities you wish you could improve in yourself. What you don't like in others can tell you about qualities you wish you didn't have in yourself.
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