I can't get angry at the people I care about, is there something wrong with me?
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Updated: May 1, 2022
warmPudding59
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Feb 26, 2018
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No, you are just compassionate. There is nothing wrong with you for being understanding wuth the people you care about.
Listeningheart33
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Mar 24, 2018
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As you said you care about them, and love them to the point that, that feeling is overtaking you from feeling angry or upset with them when needed.
Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with you.
You most be an amazing person in order to put you feeling of care and love above everything
tiredsnail
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Mar 31, 2018
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There is nothing wrong with you, and I understand where you are coming from. Your emotions may act differently depending on who you are interacting with.
Demons3
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Apr 4, 2018
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No it is completely normal, in fact that could be a positive thing. Not getting angry with loved ones can make your bond with them stronger because in anger we do things and say things that we do not mean. Therefore this could be good.
Smolpotato87
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Apr 14, 2018
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Absolutely not. It's hard to get angry at the ones we love, even if they treat us badly at times. With that said though, you should not allow yourself to become door mat. Your feelings matter too, and though you may not be able to get angry at the people you care about when they mistreat you, that doesn't mean you can't put a firm foot down and let them know that how they're treating you is hurting you.
Elena2081
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Apr 27, 2018
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No, it is just that you love them more than other people, and it is completely normal to have these feelings, you shouldn't worry too much.
Anonymous
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Apr 27, 2018
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We are only human and we can sometimes have a whole array of emotions and it can be that it's the people close to us who get caught in the cross fire. Learning to control your emotions can be difficult but with anything practice makes perfect, if you work on it for long enough it will eventually become second nature to you.
blacktea1
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Apr 28, 2018
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No, is a natural response since there's appreciation in between is normal to not to get mad at them.
EspritDuKaren68
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May 5, 2018
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How do you feel about not being able to get angry at them? If it makes you feel badly, then maybe it's time to set boundaries. While I wouldn't recommend lashing out, I DO recommend peacefully but firmly setting boundaries. You can love people and have boundaries all at once. That way, you never grow to resent those whom you love.
Anonymous
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May 13, 2018
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No, not at all! This is a very common feeling. It shows that you're compassionate and empathetic. It is always hard getting angry at a person you care about. But just think that that person needs to know (if they hurt you or if they did something wrong) as it will ultimately benefit your relationship in the long run. Sometimes tough love is the best kind of love
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