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How do I stop myself from falling in love?

Profile: Shrutz
Shrutz on Sep 24, 2015
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think about politics, career, babies, diapers and bills.okay on a serious note ,ask yourself "why do u want to stop yourself from falling in love" ?
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 25, 2015
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By Forcing your mind on something else Take the thoughts away by using that energy for doing something for others taking your mind off your own thoughts
Profile: charmingHeart
charmingHeart on Sep 27, 2015
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make busy my self by doing many positive activities, reseting our goal life, and focus to reach it. :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 29, 2015
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To be quite frank, there isn't really any sure fire way to stop it. At it's base, love comes down simply to chemicals in the body influencing us.
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Anonymous on Oct 22, 2015
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You can't, attraction is not a choice, it's innate. The expression of love, however, is not. In my experience, it is almost always appropriate to express it.
Profile: Poohwee99
Poohwee99 on Oct 22, 2015
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I have no idea how to answer this question, because i fall for people easily. but the only thing you can do is to ensure you guys have mutual feelings for each other, to prevent yourself from getting upset/sad
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 22, 2015
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Let your feelings go. Attraction is human, and at first it may seem as love. Rather than giving your emotion a name, let it develop, and it might turn out to be a temporary attraction. We have all had bad crushes, but we must have felt like those emotions were strong at one point. See where things go, but at first, give yourself a limit.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 23, 2015
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Be kind to yourself in dealing with these feelings, understand that there sometimes is not logic behind why you fall for someone, as for stopping it you must always temper those feelings with a dose of realism understand why it would not be ok to fall for this person and keep those thoughts in mind, understand where these feelings come from whether rational or irrational and then properly try to express them to yourself or to another trusted friend. Allow your self to be sad for a while if need be, but to not box these emotions up rather get them out in the open and understand them for what they are, From there you can try a lot of things to change how those emotions effect you or even change the emotions themselves
Profile: zaix
zaix on Oct 25, 2015
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Falling in love is something we do without any thought really. I don't think love is stoppable, if you're supposed to develop something for someone, you're probably going to.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 25, 2015
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Analyze how the person you're falling for reacts to things and how they treat people. They can be the coolest person in the world and be however attractive you think, but if they have bad character then you can't love them.
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