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How do I stop myself from falling in love?

Profile: CompassionateGirl90
CompassionateGirl90 on Feb 5, 2016
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If you have set the intention that you don’t wish to love again, then you probably won’t. Because that intention is there, you just won’t be interested in people in that way. If you don’t believe anyone is worthy of your love, life tends to present you with people and situations that reflect and serve as evidence of your beliefs. But if falling in love is a desire of yours, and you believe it’s possible and that someone is worthy, even if only in your subconscious, then it would be very difficult to stop it from happening. There are ways to avoid intimacy with people, and I’m not just talking about sex but emotional intimacy as well. Many people are good at avoiding emotional intimacy by default, and chances are that you are too if you have really made up your mind not to fall in love. I don’t feel it would be beneficial to some to close down entirely to the possibility of romantic love, but more to open up to the belief that you are capable of falling in love with someone who will love you back and be available for you. Most who wish not to love again do so because they have been hurt and they believe that will inevitably happen again if they love someone else. So it’s more a matter of healing those wounds, setting your intention, and altering your beliefs and behavior so that you can attract the right kind of love – if indeed romantic love is for you.
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Profile: innocentlover
innocentlover on Jul 16, 2017
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One way guys. Sit alone, contemplate, is this person really worth it? Forsee the consequences, and please focus on your pride Love is strong, it can cure and it can kill. After an unsuccessful realtion, part of you dies inside, dont try to revive it by filling the blank with toxic again. Live and take your mind off of this friends will help, for 3 months of love are gonna take you way more than that to recover after a breakup. "Fool me once, shame on you Fool me twice, shame on me" keep that in mind
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 17, 2014
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you can't! ask yourself it it is real love or just a puppy/calf love. i personaly have a lot of them
Profile: FeatherIce25
FeatherIce25 on Apr 9, 2015
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Love is a strong word and is often confused with infatuation or attraction. When you fall in love ,you don't get a feeling to stop yourself. So if you have a need to stop yourself, it is probably not love .
Profile: Ephraim
Ephraim on Aug 27, 2015
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There is more to falling in love than one may imagine. Love is described as a strong feeling of emotion towards... But what exactly is the cause of that feeling? Accepting what you feel and answering why you feel that way is a way to answer the question ; "How do i stop myself from falling in love."
Profile: Egaeus
Egaeus on Oct 24, 2015
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You don't. The question is how you deal with what comes afterwards. Love is blind sometimes, but only you know what's best for you. Even if you feel strong infatuation with a person, it might not be the right fit for you. Listen to your heart, but don't block out your mind.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 26, 2015
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Why would you want to stop yourself falling in love... The heart controls that.. Plus love can be a wonderful yet dangerous thing! Embrace it if it's a healthy natural love... Life is about taking a step in a positive direction and making the most out of whatever situation you find yourself in.
Profile: SilveryBlueSkies
SilveryBlueSkies on Dec 30, 2015
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Love is a feeling, and feelings are okay, feelings are on the inside and you cant really stop any of them from happening especially love, what you can do though is ask yourself if the person you are falling in love with is really truly the best possible healthy choice for your life. No matter who you are your life has value and you need to credit that to yourself. so make sure the people you allow into your life are healthy choices and remember, when you are with someone, its best not to think that they are doing you a favor by being with you, they aren't, you both are granting each other the precious gifts of your shared memories and lives together
Profile: geenormanxox
geenormanxox on Jan 3, 2016
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You can't help falling in love, but if you feel like that cut all communication with this person ...
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 6, 2016
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Based on my own experience, I used to fear love. It took my last relationship to realize,I do not fear love, I feared the breakup and pain that came after. I know now I enjoy love and going into a relationship with the best,positive outlook can make for a better relationship. Pain happens and makes our heart sad temporarily,but it also makes you a stronger person.
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