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How do I stop myself from falling in love?

Profile: anchoredwithhope
anchoredwithhope on Nov 4, 2015
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There is no way. You can't choose who you fall in love with. Love just happens. You don't really get to decide much of the who, where , why and how of it.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 4, 2015
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Love is temporary, you don't fall in love. You get tempted to talk to that person and be with them. Look at your love from a different point of view as if it were a mist in the air. Let it disappear and then MOVE ON.
Profile: Abbyhereforyou
Abbyhereforyou on Nov 5, 2015
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You cannot. But can always assess the situation. If you are in love with someone married, in a relationship or someone whose gonna get you in trouble, that's how you'll be able to change it. through evaluation and assessment.
Profile: Namaste2015
Namaste2015 on Nov 6, 2015
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The heart wants what the heart wants. If you are not ready then you simply need to focus on yourself
Profile: srslysd
srslysd on Nov 6, 2015
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Love is one of the greater subject while living here on earth. People fall inlove but get hurt easily. By those experience some are afraid to try. But there are some who risk their heart just to love someone even though it hurts them so much. Here are some ways to stop yourself from falling in love: 1.,Think of that persons' flaws- people have their flaws that you don't really like. Think of it and then you will start to be discourage about that person. 2. Talk to that person less- if the two of you are close to each other talk to that person less. Avoiding to talk to that person also avoid you from falling in love. 3. Focus yourself from other things- Be a busy person. You may have some new hobby or try sports. Focus on the things you love to do. So those are the things you could do for you not to fall in love.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Nov 6, 2015
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You can never stop yourself from falling in love. But if you know you are having some sorta feeling for that someone and you know it might not work out or there are restrictions try to have less contact or keep some space/distance away from that person till all subsides.
Profile: Phillip985
Phillip985 on Nov 11, 2015
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Focus on other things in life. You can look ahead of you at your future career or engulf yourself in the things you love to do. Never feel too pressured to do anything. You don't have to fall in love with anybody.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2015
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You don't. You close your eyes and you let yourself fall, because even though it might hurt, it really is a beautiful thing.
Profile: peacefulWaves67
peacefulWaves67 on Nov 14, 2015
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Well, First of all you can't really stop yourself from Falling in love. Feelings such as love can't be just stopped, and I would recommend accepting it...it'll make it a whole lot easier for yourself. If it's impossible for You and your crush to get together (already has a partner, doesn't love you back etc) try to avoid too much contact to not torture yourself or just keep enjoying the person's Company; whatever fits you the best. Just Figur out what's the best for you and in the meanwhile, spend time with your friends, focus on your hobbies, other loved ones and you as a person. :) Good luck!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2015
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Love is a natural emotion and is meant to be shared. There's nothing wrong with feeling deeply for another human being.
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