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How do I prevent negative thinking?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 24, 2020
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The first step to prevent negative thinking is to be aware of what sort of experiences or emotions incite these harmful thoughts. Often times, negative thinking seems to come out of nowhere, but once you start identifying potential triggers for this sort of thinking, you are also enabling yourself more control because you can start anticipating these thoughts. Once you are able to anticipate the recurrence of this type of thinking, the best thing to do is to try to break down these types of thoughts by asking yourself: Are these thoughts rational? How do these thoughts make you feel? Are these thoughts facts or opinions? Are these thoughts helping you achieve your goals? If you find that these thoughts are irrational, opinion-based, and aren't helping you achieve your goals, then you start to realize that this type of thinking is not assisting you in advancing yourself towards a happier and stronger self.
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Profile: CheerfulCheese
CheerfulCheese on May 28, 2020
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I have had a similar problem in the past. So this might sound pretty obvious, but look for the positive things in a situation. It actually is pretty effective. For example, instead of thinking about all the people that might bully you at the new school you are going to go to next year, think about all the new people and friends you can make there. Doing this will help you feel more positive and prevent your negative thinking. It will take time, patience, and hard work, but it will be worth it in the end. Hope this helps! :)
Profile: AnnGoodHeart1
AnnGoodHeart1 on Jun 18, 2020
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I know that this is not directly the answer to the question, but what I've found more useful than preventing negative thinking is being curious about it. Thoughts are sentences in our mind that in majority we "inherited" from our environment when we were young - created on the basis of our early experience. When I started learning where my habitual negative thinking comes from, why it occurs and how it was often the only way for me-child to survive, It was much easier to let go of it and replace it with more adequate one. It's been a really interesting journey for me and changed a lot in my life. Maybe this way could be useful for you too.
Profile: revenger0197
revenger0197 on Jun 20, 2020
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For every negative thought, try and think of 2 positive things. For example, if you are thinking "I am very self conscious today about my body." Try thinking, "I have things about myself that I find beautiful." This really helps me when I have anxiety. Another example is this; instead of thinking " People are judging me and watching me eat this food" think " Everyone is enjoying their food, just like I should be doing. They aren't watching me. " It is natural for people to look around, when there is movement around them. It is just a human thing, I guess.
Profile: Keepyourmindcalm
Keepyourmindcalm on Jun 27, 2020
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«Negative thinking» is multifaceted. It’s something all people have, even the most positive people. How you see the world/society/yourself/others is how YOU CHOOSE to see them. You can DECIDE see the world as the worst place to be, however this wouldn’t be fair because there so many beautiful places, people, situations,etc. that you don’t take into consideration. One way to prevent negative thinking is to understand that almost everything is not just black OR white. It’s IMPORTANT. Not every situation is positive but it surely has positive parts. The exact same applies for negative situations. Good luck :)
Profile: Maya1016
Maya1016 on Jul 4, 2020
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There are a few tips and techniques that you can use to prevent negative thinking. I have listed a few of them below: 1) Try to distract yourself by using meditation or mindfulness thinking. Another method of distraction can simply be to keep yourself busy. You can try reading a book, baking, painting, etc. 2) Try to reframe your situation. This can be beneficial if you find it difficult to distract yourself. Simply thinking about your negative thoughts from a different perspective can assist you greatly. 3)Surround yourself by positive people. This can help you by lightening your mood and decreasing the chance of possessing negative thoughts.
Profile: APomegrenateTree
APomegrenateTree on Jul 8, 2020
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Hi! Firstly, I wanted to acknowledge that feeling bad is not always easy, but it is okay to let yourself feel it. It might be uncomfortable and difficult, but sometimes allowing ourselves to have "negative" feelings is okay. Otherwise, you just end up bottling everything else. Once you've accepted your emotions, then it could be interesting to find out what triggers those negative thoughts. Why are you feeling this way? It's okay if it's not for a particular reason too. In the end, thoughts are a bit like passing clouds. If you let them go and not put all your focus on them, they will end up crossing you.
Profile: sunnyCat57
sunnyCat57 on Jul 15, 2020
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Unlearning negative thinking is a journey. It can take a long time so it's important to be kind to yourself and don't beat yourself up if you find yourself thinking negative thoughts. 1. Notice when these thoughts come up and ask yourself "why now?". Again, try not to berate yourself for negative thinking. Try to be curious. You're a scientist observing how your mind works. 2. Write down the negative thoughts. If they are negative thoughts about yourself, challenge them. Try to find evidence that proves them wrong. 3. Ask yourself "when did I start believing this?". 4. Try to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones. The important thing is to keep it realistic. If you're stressed or anxious, things like "everything will be wonderful!" are going to sound hollow. Start with things like "I'll survive this" and "what happens if it goes well?" Once again, it's really important to remember not to be angry or upset with yourself if the negative thoughts persist. It's a journey. It's something you have to practise over time.
Profile: BenevolentFish
BenevolentFish on Jul 22, 2020
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I think preventing thoughts is a very challenging thing to do, as you cannot stop many thoughts, like intrusive thoughts from popping up - its more like how do you accept and let negative thoughts pass! While I cant give advice, what I do is notice a negative thought as it comes, think about why I am having this negative thought, and how this negative thought makes me feel! It normally makes me feel not great, but I know that I am NOT my thoughts, and that i can take a deep breath and say postive affirmations to boost myself up instead of tearing myself down ! I hope that helps
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 28, 2020
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Negative thinking can be hard to stop once it becomes a habit. One needs to make a conscious effort to stop doing so. For instance, whenever you feel like you are starting to go down the spiral of negative thinking, try to focus on doing something you enjoy like playing a sport , painting or listening to music. It can be anything. These activities release good hormones which will help you feel better. If there is something that you can do about what's worrying you, do it. Worrying doesn't do anyone any good. Know that you are doing the best that you can and that its all going to work out as long as you keep working towards it.
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