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ashouldertocryon8 on Jun 23, 2019
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Often preventing negative thinking will make it worse. The best way to cope is to acknowledge the negative thoughts and try to work through them. This had been really effective for me. It can also be helpful to work through this stuff with a counselor or therapist. I found that working through the negative thoughts with someone you trust is really helpful and can not only help keep the negative thoughts at bay, it can also help widen your mind and make you think more broadly. It can help you think about the 'why'. Why you may be feeling these negative things.
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Anonymous on Jun 26, 2019
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Negative thinking Is something that most of us do without acknowledge but that's not a good thing ,because our thoughts has a great effect on our lives.positivity is a really good thing.The universal law of attraction which has been scientifically proved says that if somebody keeps thinking about something constantly the universe will provide them support according to what they think. But if we keeps thinking about negative things constantly the universe in return would provide us negative results. That's why positive thinking is such an important thing. Try to concentrate on your daily activities well and try to be positive about every thing you do. believe in yourself no matter what. And the moment you get a negative thought suppress it by using your positive energies .
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genuineNight42 on Jun 27, 2019
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By stop validating yourself by what other people may or may not think around you! Negative thinking usually incurs due to how people behave, interactions with them, and opinions of other people. The minute we start validating ourselves by our own sets of principles, the whole outcome of life will change. Negative thinking doesn't develop itself, however it does evolve. But did you ever stop and think, its not the things in your room that gives you a reason for being a pessimist. It's the network of people around you. Is it really important to care what anyone will think of you, if you think it is. Wait and analyze a situation, where you disappear. How much would that person care then?
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wizeakre on Jul 7, 2019
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I don't think negative thinking is always preventable, but we can learn how to be more in-control of it. We may have a "negative" feeling, which comes automatically. Sometimes, this leads to a negative thought. We can keep ourselves from focusing on the negative thought if we look back to the emotion. What is the emotion trying to tell us? Even "negative" emotions still have a job to do. Anger might tell us that someone has crossed a boundary. Sadness might tell us someone hurt us. Sometimes if we can figure out what the emotion is trying to tell us, we can try to change that situation that is bothering us, or if it is not something we have control of we can attempt to accept it. Sometimes we can't always figure out a reason for our emotions, and that's ok too. Sometimes all the emotion needs is a little attention and observance, and then it will calm and fizzle out on its own. We just have the watch the negative thinking when we find ourselves "stuck" on an idea or thought loop over and over. If we keep revisiting the idea too much, it probably means some sort of action is needed.
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Paris03 on Jul 26, 2019
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Surround yourself with positive energy. The people who you communicate with daily have an impact on you, also the words you speak and the music you listen to. Listen to something motivational, or a word of prayer (if you're religious) and surround yourself with people who are vibrant and who look out for each other. Here's something basic I recommend: Every morning you wake up, go in the mirror and say something positive about yourself (even if it's the same thing every morning. Speak it into existence! I also recommend trying to find something you like and channel all your negative energy towards it.
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Anonymous on Sep 19, 2019
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Try meditating🤗and do things that make you happy so that they can distract you.And remember to say positive affirmations.And spend time with family and friends.Do the things that make you happy all the time.Celebrate your achievements no matter how small they are.Do not put too much pressure on yourself because that’s the first step to living a healthier life.Self care is the basic of positive thoughts.So if you love and appreciate yourself you are more likely to think about the wonderful things and you can look at life in a different way.So anytime you have negative thoughts just treat yourself a little.
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Anonymous on Sep 26, 2019
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There are many techniques. But here is one that I like particularly. It’s based on the principle of meditation on which to empty our mind we don’t fight the thoughts we let them come and go. Having negative thoughts is natural, but rumination is the problem, it causes the damages. Be kind to yourself, and let the negative thoughts come and go. The more classic one is try to shake it off. Replace them by good thoughts, by absorbing good vibes around you. Music on, meeting with others, simply watching something that makes you laugh, doing something that you enjoy, etc... keep your mind busy with positive thoughts
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peacefulLight8704 on Oct 13, 2019
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It's hard to completely stop all negative thinking, and it takes a ton of practice to improve on this! I would try to just start challenging your thoughts, and replacing them with positive ones. For example, if someone makes vague comment that you believe confirms the worst about yourself, challenge that. Are you sure it isn't the preconceptions that you already have about yourself that are causing you to falsely interpret this message? Sometimes, we have filters in our brains that everything goes through. So if you think you don't look good, you will find things to confirm that, whether its true or not.
Profile: EdSAB
EdSAB on Oct 23, 2019
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If you want to prevent negative, you have to first be mindful of your thoughts, whether they are positive or negative thoughts. Preventing negative thinking requires learning a new habit of positive thinking. Every time you notice that you are thinking negatively about something, shake the thought and think something positive about it. Be optimistic and look at the bright side of things no matter how bad the situation seems. But it starts with being mindful of your thoughts which allows you to notice what you are actually thinking about and adjust the way you are thinking about it. No matter how bad things seem, there is always something positive to look at it.
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Leafless393 on Oct 27, 2019
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In my experience negative thinking is the result of inner reflection that is blind to one’s personal self worth. Training yourself to see at least one positive thing in every situation changes what you’re looking for, and with that small change you will begin to find more and more positive aspects of yourself. The positive aspects are little precious gems. For me these gems became more valuable to me because, sometimes they are very hard to find unless I ignored the negative which was only there because my mind put it there to begin with and was never real. I don’t believe positive thinking comes naturally or easily for some but is a learned skill we are all capable of mastery
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Anonymous on Nov 14, 2019
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Try hanging out with people, try not to be alone with yourself. Try talking to anyone, even an adult, or maybe right down to your pet if there isn't anyone, then get a helpful therapist. Negative thoughts never escape, especially when your moody feelings penetrates the mind into thinking your a failure, your not good enough, you need to end it all, the pain and suffering is terrible...You know there is a reason for your life, not to be worrying about some stupid thoughts. There are things to look up to like schools, colleges, jobs, love, money, and mostly yourself...Once you get out of the "lifesucksphase" and your mind is fully developed, you will figure out your story to your life is just the beginning.
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Anonymous on Nov 29, 2019
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I prevent negative thinking by taking a deep breath and doing some high intensity activity for 2 minutes. If it's really bad I like to take a shower. Also, I like to place myself in other people's perspective. Why would this person do? I ask myself. Breathing deeply helps me calm down and refocus. Working out helps me clear my mind and exert some energy that otherwise would not be use the smartest way. When negatives thoughts come your way, you must re center yourself and replace it with a positive thought. Thoughts come and go, it is up to us to allow them make us or ruin us.
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Bettyboop1961 on Dec 4, 2019
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Blow out the bumble bees and breathe in the butterflies. Do something positive or something that makes you feel good. Keep busy. Create a hobby for yourself that will give you a positive feeling . Set a goal and something that is easily achievable. When negative thinking starts, get up and do something you like . Keep your mind busy with errands, chores, activities. Call a friend that supports you. Reach out to us here at 7 cups. Know that someone is always here for you. Keep telling yourself you can achieve all.
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Anonymous on Dec 15, 2019
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Negative thinking can be difficult to prevent depending on the reason you think negatively. Even people who think positively have negative thoughts. I feel that it is more about pushing those negative thoughts away that eventually help you to make positive thinking a habit. Like the saying goes, the first thought that comes to your mind is what society has conditioned you to think, the second thought is what you truly think. You just have to tell yourself, "No, that's not right," and then try to find the positive side of it. I always try to find the positive side of even the most negative situations. You may have to really think about it at first, but it becomes very easy to see the good in things after a while.
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firecrackersintheeast on Dec 28, 2019
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An important thing for me to stop thinking so negatively is to first acknowledge that your thoughts are negative. Whether it's about you or someone else, having negative thoughts fosters a negative mindset, which is bad for your health (both physical and mental!). So when you stop yourself, and say, hey, that wasn't a really nice thing to think about myself/someone else, it's a good first step to preventing your future negative thoughts. From there, I would recommend trying to take a step back from those thoughts, and try to identify evidence in the contrary. For example: "I'm a bad friend." Negative thought! So what do I do that makes me a good friend? Well I'm pretty good at listening to my friends and helping them through tough times, even if I have been isolating myself a lot recently.
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windBlow5510 on Feb 13, 2020
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First, i accept the fact that I am a human being with emotions, emotions means there's time when i feel up and time when i feel down. Second, negative thinking is temporary, it comes in when i am down and disappear when i am up. Accept the fact that negative thinking is temporary, don't worry about it. I cannot prevent it, it happens and it is just temporary, but i try to make it disappear as soon as possible, build the habit of coming out from negative thought in time, then it will happen less often. When negative thought come less and less often, i think i'm doing the good job of preventing it.
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Jenn20 on Feb 16, 2020
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Oof I can relate to that a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! I think you should write your thought down to get them out of your mind and to see what you have been thinking on paper. I think you should ask yourself why are you thinking this way. Is it something you learnt from childhood? Did you parents do the same thing to you? I think also speaking to a counselor or someone like that is helpful too! ( I know for me, it was because of my childhood experiences. I took all that to be current self and that's caused me to be the way I am now. But I know negative thinking isn't healthy at all if you are doing it all the time for no reason)
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BabyyTyy10 on Feb 22, 2020
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Have you heard the saying that a whole ocean of salt water cannot sink a ship, unless it gets inside, well it's the same for you, the negativity of the world shouldn't bring you down, unless you allow it to get within you. I know it's hard to stop, but for this you must build your walls high and structure strong. The key is happiness. People misunderstand the meaning of this word but in reality it's quite simple. Happiness is not about others, jobs, education, relationships, family. No. Happiness is about you. About how you embrace it and how much you appreciate yourself. Happiness is about you. It always has been.
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ilmars on Mar 13, 2020
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The real question one should be asking is how to handle negative thinking, since one cannot simply prevent or control a thought. Stay at peace with the negative thought when it comes, and watch it flow idly by like a cloud drift across the blue sky. Encourage yourself to stay in touch with what energizes you, I believe, is very important, and it will have an enduring effect on your every thinking patterns. Keeping a log of negative thoughts, along with counterarguments is also helpful. It's good practice to put a positive spin on an unpleasant event that triggers negative thought, and write them down on your thought journal. And of course, cultivating gratitude consistently and regularly will be very beneficial for your moods.
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Anonymous on Mar 18, 2020
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This can be extremely tricky. I guess, it’s very different and subjective experience for everybody. However, what I do think is the essential thing for this process of trying to avoid negative thinking and overthinking is trying to recognize that you are about to go into such head space. This way, you will be able to recognize it as something irrational and be able to see that it won’t be beneficial or healthy for you, letting yourself acknowledge its potential negative effects, finding reasons to not want to be in such head space. Avoiding it is the key component.
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